why cant i feel pleasure during sex?!


Question: Why cant i feel pleasure during sex?
this is really enbarressing but i dont feel like pleasure during sex? i feel the presure from like a finger pushing down in there or something but i dont like get the feeling im suppose to get its weird i just like want an answer??

Answers:

Believe it or not, what you feel is normal. There are virtually no nerve endings in the vagina, so while you can feel pressure, you can't feel the friction of the sex, and there's no pleasure in that area from sex. Instead, the place where women feel pleasure is generally at the outside and entrance to the vagina, particularly the clitoris. In order for you to feel pleasure during sex, you need to know what you like and what feels pleasurable.

Scarleteen is a website with useful advice for women about this. Like this article:

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual…



How aroused are you before you start having sex? If you don't get enough foreplay that could happen I guess.
Or maybe your body just doesn't respond to that type of stimulation as much. Do you have orgasms other ways? A lot of women just don't get orgasms or a lot of pleasure from vaginal sex, only from clitoral stimulation of some kind [fingers, oral, etc]. It's not actually unusual from what I know. Some of that during sex could make it better, though maybe you tried that already?
Other than that, not sure. Maybe ask your gynecologist?



Don't be embarrassed. I'm the same way. I have to be stimulated from my clitoris at the same time to even begin feeling anything. All women are different. You just need to experiment and see what can help you feel pleasure. I personally don't feel anything in my vagina really except pressure. It's the outside that does it for me. So don't feel bad. Just see if you can work some new things into it! Good Luck <3



Well you're obviously young by the way you can't spell embarrassing or pressure, and you say you've been with multiple guys, so maybe you should keep your legs closed and let things tighten back up a bit. In a couple years, try again and then see a gynecologist if you still don't feel it.



because they havent found what to do yet.
i didnt either the first couple of years..then i found vibrators and
a shower head lol..they satisfy me more than a guy has.



use the magic button

Use the magicbutton



Try anal. For damn sure you'll feel more than pressure then.



you need to find another guy...




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