Why am I unwanted by beautiful women and wanted by ugly or obese women? what to !

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it's your approach, the way you attack things, and the vibe you give off. The kind of girls you attract is a reflection of you, so there must be something about YOU. perhaps you're ugly inside which is why you can only attract "ugly" women and repulse attractive ones.

So, because she's fat you won't date her? That's so low man. If you connect with somebody don't take it for granted. I've dated women who've been physically unattractive before, but strangely I was much happier with them than any hot girl I've been with, and had better sex because we liked each other.

Look nobody is perfect, find somebody who makes you happy, not somebody you can whack off to but has a bad personality and you end really being to unattracted to .

have you ever thought that maybe its you? i hate to be rasist but HELLO you are asian. most of the good looking woman can get a rich guy but whos not asian. its not all about the looks. maybe you should try getting a woman yourn race, asian. there you will be able to get a good woman. no offence or anything, but i would so not hang out with you if you only cared for the looks. escpecially if you are asian.

i know this is horribly, ginourmously, massily, tremendiously racist. but thats the only way i could actually answer it.

By recognising that your prejudices are ruining your life. You have an idealized fantasy of what a "good" woman is. In fact, if you look carefully you will make an amazing discovery - there are no ugly women on this planet! And large women need large men, so you're attractive at 6 feet and 170lbs. Just get used to it!

Maybe you can not fine a good true hearted women because all you care about is looks.

wow, if someone told me I had to lose weight in order to be with them, I would punch them in the nose and walk away. I would want NOTHING to do with him.

You need to grow up and change your priorities or you are going to be alone for the rest of your life.

You are the ugly person. The ''ugly'' women are told by guys like you that they are ''ugly'' and the ones with damaged esteem SETTLE for guys like you. Man up.

You're standards are too high. All of the good looking women you get are clearly hoes.

omg! get over yourself! who do you think you are!

You think that you are Bred Pit. Come on man :))

There is no such thing as a ugly woman, everyone has qualities that make them beautiful and it doesn't matter if they are overweight or "physically unattractive." I am considered quite attractive and I am married to a man who is 25 years older than me and he is considered ugly by many people's standards. I'm on facebook under Dianna Burton (blond girl) just so you can get a picture. Someday the right woman will come along, I fell in love with my man because of his humor and intelligence, not his looks, maybe you should do the same. I hope this helps.

ALL women are attracted to confidence. You can be the poorest ugliest man it the whole club or church but if you are high in self confidence and self worth the women will be attracted like a magnet(You've heard of animal magnetism?). This confidence is why women tend to be attracted to narcissistic ****** types.These men appear as good protectors not necessarily good providers. It is pure animal protectionist instinct and is ultra hard wired.Take a class in Karate or similar arts and that will not only raise your self-confidence but will also raise your testosterone and androgens(male hormones) which in turn will make you exude pheromones attractive to females. You obviously wear your defeatist baggage on your forehead. Clean yourself up and man up and you will be amazed. Good Luck!