Can't find the right hole?!

Well you are a virgin so your hymen is most probably there which is why you cnt stick it in with ease. First of all sit on the bed with ur legs spreaded and take your index finger and find the hole.
It's like at the bottom, hard to tell. It's a small opening depending on the type of your hymen.
Before you have sex make sure he knows where the hole is so that he knows where he should put it into. Also make sure you are fully aroused and wet or well lubricated because otherwise sometimes it's impossible to put it in.
So make sure there is enough lubrication. Or he could wear a lubricated condom.
Your vagina isnt too small. dont worry about that. It can stretch upto even 10cm (during child birth) and it is made to recieve the penis so it cant be too small. it's just that you have to break the hymen the right way.
:)

hope i helped.
Oh and do some research. that will help.

xx

There are only two holes that a penis can fit inside, your (as you call it) 'sex hole' and your anus. The only other hole down below is your pee hole - which is impossible for a penis to fit into.

Your vagina will be tight at first because you are a virgin therefore it may be hard for the penis to go inside it easily. Really, don't worry. Try a few things before hand such as him placing two or three fingers up inside you, this will stretch the hole to a better size for the penis to fit into.

You may feel some discomfort but that's because it is your first time. Chill out, do not panic and go with the flow. But remember - you only loose your virginity once.

Sex Education at school.

This happen to me too.. you are just really tight.. its gonna take a couplr tries before it actually goes in, try having your boyfriend finger you before he sticks it in.. that will help, so will condoms and lube!

Myself

My Dear. It is your hymen that is in the way. Trust me, you have the right hole. When he breaks your hymen then it will fit. Just keep doing it.

IF YOU DONT KNOW WHERE ITS SUPPOSE TO GO THEN YOU SHOULDNT BE HAVING SEX


http://www.avert.org/how-to-have-sex.htm

he may need to finger you to break, ur "seal" then retry.

u are probably NOT too small.

u both just need to relax.

don't be in a hurry,....just slowly work toward it

u r too young at 16 perhaps to have sex. may be due to still growing age. its not proper here to advice girls below 18 on such matters. just wait a few yrs till 18 and u will learn all gradually dear!

I think its not your problem.He was unable to insert in you. So leave him.

Hi,

Pl. try again.

dont rush into it.