ARGH Why do people do this?!


Question: ARGH Why do people do this?
Last night, for the 3rd time, someone commented on my weight!

1. My good friend said in conversation "But you've always had problems with your weight, right?"
2. A man I was dating said "Don't feel bad about your size or anything. I doesn't matter to me"
3. My instructor asked if I would be interested in a diet program she knew about.

All three of those people are sweet, kind, loving people and I know they weren't trying to be hurtful.
But I just don't understand why people think I do or should feel bad about my size and do or should want to change it?

My figure looks A LOT like this:
http://imagecache5.art.com/p/LRG/10/1064/IJNL000Z/raquel-welch.jpg
I've got hips, I got D-cup boobs, and my thighs aren't thin. I think I'm shapely and I LIKE my hourglass figure.

I used to be very thin but am so much happier after gaining some weight. I feel sexier, more confident, more womanly. And men seem MUCH more interested in me at this size than when I was thin.

I dress beautifully in flattering styles, have a great hairstyle, and am always well groomed (nails, makeup, etc.) .

Why do people assume I'm not happy with my size?

Answers:

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i have absolutely no idea. i personally think women look better with a little shape but thanks to TV and hollywood people think that the skinnier you are than the happier and prettier you are. if you honestly like your shape then dont doubt it and just say whatever when people comment because your weight and happiness is none of thier buisness



I am dumbfounded. A lot of people in our modern society excuse their rudeness by saying "I was just trying to be helpful!". It's a symptom of some of the ills in modern society, when people think that everything is suddenly their business. I'm afraid websites exactly like this one are encouraging this type of behavior.



I dunno - they're probably just jealous!


Just ignore them - they're idiots!



Just ignore them and tell them to mind their own business.

If you are happy, that's all that matters.



HI: )
i think you are in a very good shape and honestly you are not fat at all .It is important you are happier now:D So ignore jealous people.

Good Luck



I love that body shape, hottie




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