I need masturbation help?!
Question: I need masturbation help?
I've been trying to masturbate lately, and it hasn't been easy. I do clitoral stimulation, no penetration. It's hard for me to find the right spot, I guess, but I occasionally get it. But once things start getting intense, for some reason I have to stop. I don't think I'm being overwhelmed, but I just can't do it anymore. I'm fairly certain I haven't reached orgasm yet, though. Any idea what's going on? How can I change this?
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The only way to change that is to work yourself through it slowly. Your body is telling you that you are reaching a peak, but your mind is telling you that you have not made it over the peak yet. So what to do: when you have to stop, then stop but only for a short time and don't let the mood fall away. Start back in again, slowly and gently. After practicing you will be able to push yourself over the peak to full satisfaction.
Do you know what the BIGGEST sex organ is? It's your brain! and without it, the pleasure you feel would not be possible. In order for your BODY to be ready for sexual stimulation, your BRAIN must be stimulated FIRST. Arousal the first stage of sexual activity involves your brain sending out a chemical signal to your sexual organs that heightens stimulation. Only then, can you start the touching, and masturbating and achieve real results (aka orgasm).
So, you need to find whatever it is that turns you "ON" sexually. When you do, you won't have any more problems in this department.
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