Cheated on my fiancee & now she wants to move miles away with our son. What !


Question: Cheated on my fiancee & now she wants to move miles away with our son. What do i do?
I am 33 and have been with my fiancee for 7yrs, engaged for 2 of them, We also have a 1yo son, She is 25 and comes from an abusive home, she is the love of my life. A week before christmas gone at our friends 30th i was talking with my best friend and out of nowhere & girl i knew when i was younger came over to us and i knew she was flirting with me but i stupidly played into it as my fiancee & i had been arguing before we arrived and had been tension between us for 2wks previous. My ex fiancee has a very quick temper and called me away and snapped at me, again we had another argument, although i enjoyed her being jealous, She told me she was leaving with her bff and told me to stay as she didn't want me around her at that point. I got way too drunk and ended up alone with my old female friend, We ended up sleeping together. Two days later when we were shopping for our son i told her i slept with the other girl, i just came out and said it, I felt numb when she just walked out. She moved out with my son saying she couldn't bear to look at me, I keep sending her flowers and trying to call her but nothing. When i pick up our son shes cold to me, But her friend told me that she's still in love with me. Over the weekend she came by my job, She told me she is thinking strongly about moving to California with our son saying that NY has always been horrible to her & that she wants better for him, to be happy. My world is falling apart in front of me and i cant seem to do anything about it. Any advice?

Answers:

Try going with her discreetly and 'bumping into her' and apologizing. Other answerers here have said that women don't tolerate cheating, and they are correct, but there is always hope. Keep trying.



i typical case of "penile-thinking".



hate to tell you this get ready to pay child support for the next 20 years
most women don tolerate cheating



Men will never learn. Most women are serial monogamists and won't tolerate cheating. It serves you right, it really does, and you can only hope that she loves you enough to put up with your abominable behaviour and if she doesn't, you have to put up with her decision and let her go. You no longer have any rights in this - you are in the wrong totally




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