New to this whole subject!? Please help!?!


Question: New to this whole subject!? Please help!?
The other day my boyfriend wanted to have sex but not vaginal, the other one. I said ok, since I love him and I have never tried it before I wanted it to be with him. But 3 days later, it still hurts it feels like I have a cut down there tht just won't heal. Can someone please help? And also, this is really embarrassing but I havnt been able to go to the bathroom either, I can pee just fine I just cnt do the other thing. And will something bad happen if he "let's go" in there? I kno three ?'s in one. But plz don't make fun, this is serious and I'm scared something could be wrong!? Please help!?

Answers:

U probably do hav a cut around ur butthole..if ur boyfriend didn't use lots of lube or tak his time or even if he did he could hav caused the cuts when his penis entered u..its a normal thing,it will heal..an yes its cool if he cums in ur butt..an since ur butts sore u may jus b tense or afraid its gonna hurt more if u poop..dnt b afraid dis is normal stuff..if u still can't poop mayb u should tak a laxative to help u out..I hope u feel better soon :-) also only hav anal sex if YOU want to.its UR body an u hav to deal with the after affects lik ur sore butt.



Okay, in the future, don't do things that you don't want to, and stop doing something that hurts right away. (Unless you're into pain, which you don't seem to be.) There are guides online for how to have anal sex that is satisfying and not painful, you should probably check them out.

A man ejaculating in your rectum won't hurt anything, though it is easier to catch STDs through anal sex because the anus isn't designed for sex like the vagina is, and the anus can tear more easily, giving the infection a place to get in.

As to the pain and inability to defecate, you need to see a doctor. My guess would be that there was some tearing and stretching and the pain itself is preventing your from defecating, but there's only one way to find out, and that's go to a doctor.



I have never done it and never will it just does not appeal to me !
You can really damage yourself if you have not done it before though and you would need to use lots and lots of lube as this part of the body does not produce its own like a vagina would do !
If he has stretched you too far it may have cut you and of course its going to be sore !
Nothing bad will happen if he "lets go in there" but from the experience you have had would you really go there again? and i would give it another day or two and then go and see your gp (he's probably ssen ths more than once so suck it up and go)




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