Is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate?!


Question: Is it normal for teenage girls to masturbate?
I do it, not often but sometimes when i get really horny but i dont know if my friends do i never talk about it with them. I feel all weird i feel like im the only girl who does it. I feel ashamed. I've overhead the popular girls saying 'omg who would fingers themselves?! that is so disgusting' it was nothing to me but i dont get how girls can find it disgusting, its just like a guy doing it to you but you know how to touch yourself and you know what you are doing. Today I mentioned to my friend i might try phone sex with my boyfriend but i had forgot it involved touching yourself and my friend said to me 'So your going to touch yourself?!' in a really disgusted voice, it was like she though i was pathetic. So i just pretended i didn't know you had to do that with phone sex. I sometimes wonder if my friends have ever done something like that, i feel like a complete freak and an outsider! Do you think they actually do it, we are all 15 so how can it not be normal? why do girl go on like its a bad thing?! And even guys from my school, when they bully people they spread rumours around saying a certain girl fingers herself and they tease her and take the piss out of her. I get so confused because obviously boys watch porn, they watch girls finger them selves so why bully a teenage girl for doing it? I dont understand why everyone thinks its bad, us girls don't act like that to guys!

Answers:

You are NORMAL!
And it is a very healthy activity - it gets you acquainted with your body and when you do become sexually active with a partner, you will know what turns you on, and you will be able to tell your p artner what works!

If your friends feel this way, just don't discuss it with them.
You sound more sexually mature than they are and even more mature than some women that are a lot older than you.
And teen-age guys are not as mature as girls their own age. Ignore them.!



Yes it is completely normal for females to masterbate..ur boyfriends a weirdo for acting lik dat..most dudes lik to hear a grl play wit herself..dnt b embarrassed..an its nobodys business if u do,so if ppl ask u jus b lik its none of ur business..its a normal healthy thing an im not ashamed to do it..so enjoy :-)

Me



According to statistics, 59% of girls have masturbated by age 18. (See link below.)

You are in good company if you do. So go ahead and get your fingers wet. You have nothing to be concerned about!

http://www.sexetc.org/faq/girls_health/9…



i know exactly how you feel.
the same thing is happening to me. but personally i only rub myself..(im too chicken to stik anything in there cuz im scared itll hurt :/ :P) but ya my friends claim they dont do it so i just go along and say i dont either.. but i do if im really horny or something



Yeah don't even worry, girls might not talk about it but every guy my age does, and everyone does it, they can deny it but they're lying lol.



yes its normal when they r aroused. its safe to do by self rather than any other way.



no



Its not bad at all. It's actually considered healthy. & its safer than having someone else do it. You need to know and love yourself before you can know and love someone else. Make Sense? Your friends, are either really immature, or lying. Because their too afraid to admit they do it. & that's not going to go away, I'm a Junior in High School & upper class-men are just as stupid and immature as 'fish'. Which may not be something you wanna hear but that's life. It's nothing to be ashamed of and its not bad. & those popular girls, do it. If they don't do it themselves they have someone else do it for them, which may not be the best thing...especially if the boys are older..coughcough,sluts! don't worry about it girl, just be who you are, and if your comfortable with it, thats all that matters.

experience.



those girls who are saying "omg who does that?" i guarantee you half of them have done it haha. its healthy and normal. and its great to know your body. by the time you're in a long term relationship or married, it will be a great thing to know how your man can please you because you'll already know how to please yourself. this does wonders for your relationship trust me :) men find it easy to express how much they love you through sex.



Theres absolutely nothing wrong with it at all. Don't care about what others think because everyone is different, and opinions are like ***-holes, everyone's got one and they all stink. Plus, try not to give sensitive information such as that even to your friends, because friends spread rumors no matter how close you are with them; and come on, no one needs to know stuff as personal as that about you, just keep it to yourself.

And yes other girls do it at your age, and even before. It's completely normal and is actually a bodily function that has a craving that needs to be satisfied. People who think it is unnatural are retarded, its as natural as things get! Girls who shun you for it are seriously superficial and probably do it themselves anyway.

Hope this helps!



You sure SOUND like you got it all together . nice writing skills. I and at least 89% of my classmates have Mr B 8 ED for life. We have a Free hour that is 235 girls in three classes. we take polls and personal interviews. have open Dialogue and Video taped secret discussions. most are about SEX and Self . Girl stuff. Though this was 4 years ago it is still going on an they use much of our old tapes /CDs for current classes . we were the First and it worked so well they continued. because the questions were the same as we see here every 12 hours. No matter the class year/ age/ ethnic diversity., it was just about always the same. *89% masturbated 2 X @ week or more. 8 % occasionally twice a month .Balance abstaining from the answer. [We had a strong Amish attendance for Senior year Diplomas.] Don't get me wrong they participated in all group discussions as openly as the rest. The double blind polls and quiz's were completed and accurate, but, Voting by hand was often Abstained by them in public class. I am sorry You are in such a backwards area that it has no open tolerances for frank discussion.
Know your body and enjoy it. YOU, teach it to orgasm and achieve as much from Intimacy as possible.
Be ready to teach your Spouse how to keep you happy in bed. and you, likewise for him. I suggest ,<Scarleteen.com> and their partners . as excellent it learning about YOU. its all PDF no photos or porn. just inter-action with others and answers to SERIOUS teen sex ed.
Your friends are Fonnies/phonies / Liars/fakes/ fibbers . and ashamed of being GIRL. I started Young , as I was ""precocious Puberty" boobs in [3]third grade, started in 4th , Was sexually active to young also.
But with good s3x ED, I survived with out pregnancy.or STD. 12 years of Cheer leading an still not Worried about that . And believe me I pushed the envelope to send a giraffe in the mail.
You just stay true to you and Whack that little monkey an time the mood strikes. Invent new wasy to thrill your self. .




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