is sex sex or does it really really matter about the guy?!


Question: Is sex sex or does it really really matter about the guy?
ok bad mistake, i told a girl i thought id never meet that i wasnt a virgin. But I am. She likes me for me, so i doubt it will matter but im sure she will know somethings up. lol but i mean she'll enjoy it right??? tips? im 18 she 22. ;0

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Unless you told her that you were a super-stud who acts in porn movies, she probably won't know. And if she likes you, she probably wouldn't care even if she does know. Sex requires two people, so what happens between you should be the result of discussion about what feels good, what each of you likes to do and is okay with doing for the other person. Remember, the original meaning of the word "intercourse" was "conversation." In other words, you should just have lots of intercourse before and during intercourse. ;-)



OK, you do need to tell her you're a virgin. Otherwise, there will be awkwardness. She WILL know something is up. Because if you had already had sex, you wouldn't be asking the question you've just asked. Sex can be a complicated thing. And it sounds to me like you have unrealistic expectations of it (which is typical of guys your age, and common of guys who aren't virgins too, so don't feel bad about it.) The way to lose this ignorance is to read up a lot, and also spend time talking to your sex partner. Many guys don't do that, and women end up unsatisfied. But most women aren't assertive so their guy doesn't know they're unsatisfied. So if you do a little bit of reading up and learn what women like and want, you'll end up ahead of even the guys who have been having sex for years. Probably the most important thing for you to know is that 70% of women do NOT climax from sexual intercourse. And that inside the vagina there are pretty much no nerve endings. Instead, women's nerve endings are mostly on the outside, with the main area being the clitoris. You need to do a little internet research to figure out what all the parts are down there. It can be confusing and puzzling. You can get information here:
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/a…
In general Scarleteen is a good website to look at for sexual advice. It's more geared toward the female reader than the male reader--but that just means that, as a guy, if you read it you'll have a better idea about what women want.

You also need to get some condoms and practice how to use them the right way.



My BF told me he wasn't a virgin either, but he is. Guys: Don't lie... it makes women very angry.




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