My girlfriend has a complete disregard for her physical healthiness?!
Question: My girlfriend has a complete disregard for her physical healthiness?
The worst part is, she won't let me eat unhealthily. When I'm going to eat, let's say, a cake, she will tell me that it's not good for me, and will tell me it'll make me all fat, and then SHE eats the cake, saying that she has a high metabolism, and she doesn't have to worry about it. I swear, she's constantly eating.
To make matters worse, I think it's starting to show. Her legs are a lot more flabby, her butt is looser looking, and larger, and her stomach is flabbier. (Her stomach doesn't have a muffin top or anything, but when she wears tight shirts, you can see it jiggling when she walks, it's really disgusting. It used to be toned). She's constantly sitting, too. She basically moves as little as possible these days. She seems to not notice, because she thinks she's really cute and skinny, like she used to be. (of course, she's still cute :D) I'd say she's probably like 135 or 140 now.
What could be the reason for this?? Is she just filling out and gaining a little extra weight (for child birth), like I read most girls do around this age? This can't be healthy? AND WHY, does she not let me eat anything unhealthy in front of her, yet she thinks it's okay for her to eat. (I'm not even close to being overweight, or even out of shape) Thank you.
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Show her examples of people she might know who have or had a bad health or diet. Show her the things that they and her have in common (health wise) and show her what would happen if she continued in that route. Then tell her how her health is important to you and vow to help her return to her original healthy state.
she wants her bf to stay hot, but shes probably still used to eating tons of food from when she was doing sports (i do a sport and i eat like twice the amount of food you're normally supposed to take in daily) shes telling you not to eat unhealthy, you can do the same for her, and maybe you can go exercise together (like drag her to the gym maybe)
talk to her did any thing emotinal happen to her latley my hot *** girl freind started eating alot when her dad died in a wrek i talked to her she got it out and she got back to her sexy tight self :)
Because once a girl lands a guy they think that they can get fat and you will not leave them. You need to lay down the law. If she has gained 15 pounds in 6 months, then she will gain 30 in a year. A doctor will tell you that a weight gain or loss of 10 pounds is really unhealthy and bad for your heart. Besides gaining that much weight, she is turning into a fat pig. You said "it's really disgusting" and that is just this amount of weight gain from her being lazy and eating like a pig, wait for a year or two and she will be up to 190.
Luckily you are not married and you can bail, which is what I suggest you do.