Is 17 and a virgin does this make me a complete and living freak?!


Question: Is 17 and a virgin does this make me a complete and living freak?
Oh, and I don't like masturbate also. I find it a little disturbing. But I don't wanna get pregnant. I'm a model and many guys would like try to get in me, but I would push them away. I treat my body like a temple, my body is no ones property but mine. Oh and I'm not gonna be stupid and get pregnant. I will have sex when I am like married already. I stand in the mirror and tell myself to wake up and to not be a bread in a basket to pass around to men. I may be flirty and the guys would think oh yeah it's time, and I'm just like uh-uh hell no, I don't think so. But I feel like a freak sometimes too you know. Oh and most of the girls that I used to know in school, had sex at a very young age, and are now like probably about 18 or so and all like already have about 3 kids. But be honest, d'you think that I'm a freak?

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No, you aren't weird at all. Just have a sane head on your shoulders.

You are a role model and someone to look up to. Many girls let boys take advantage of their bodies, but you are different. You treat your body like it is, a temple. You are obviously not a slut or any of those, and respect yourself too much to let someone treat you like trailer trash.

If a guy cannot respect the fact that you respect yourself, then don't bother dating him. Keep it up, maybe you could even stay abstinent until marriage! A good guy would really respect that.

So no, you are not a freak. You are a role model.

On the contrary, your a saint. Now live up to it and don't let the pressures of the moronic masses sway you, especially boys or men because to them your just another notch on their holster. I should know. I've been one of them for over 45 years and I'm not with any of those conquests. That is how these you men see you. Once the conquest is achieved, were off to other challenging conquests. I dare anyone to challenge this male chuevanist quirks

NO, you are not a freak.
don't compare yourself with what you're seeing and what's everyone doing.
AND DON'T FLIRT. you might lose it just because of that. don't give signs to guys because guys are only after sex (well, no offense. but most of them)
so if you don't want to ruin yourself, don't do such flirting and never think of those. it'll tempt you.
just keep up, stay virgin until you're married.
your husband will be the happiest man.

No. How does that make you a freak? I'm a 17 year old virgin too. It's something to be proud of. The fact that your body is nobody else's property but yours is a GOOD THING. That means you won't let any guy mess around with you. You should be proud of yourself. :)

If more girls were like you then most men wouldnt have such a bad view of women... waiting to get married is a good thing and then the guy you get married to wont think your a whore

IM an 18 year old guy

I would advise you to be 17 and a virgin, honestly. But, it may be hard to wait until you're married to have sex, because chances are you won't be their first... maybe you should just wait until college.

I'm 15 and a virgin and i'm proud of it! you are not a freak! i wouldn't ever want to take the risk of being pregnant and ruining my good years

THATS A GOOD THING YOUR NOT LIKE WHORES WHO ALWAYS just have sex very good for you kudos for you

myself


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