i don't respect men. i try, but i can't. idk whats wrong with me i end!

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i feel your treatin this like a game, like your trying to 'score some points' and 'even up the game' but really your not..your just makin yourself out to be a ***** and in fact giving girls a bad name and a reason to be treated like garbage (which is wrong).

my 2 cents..take it or leave it

Maybe you should lean more towards supporting Feminism groups, which are all for woman's right and being independent and strong. Please do not enforce disrespecting other people in order to gain a feeling of respect for yourself and other women. That puts you at the same level as men who are disrespectful.

It's just not okay, and not solving anything by you treating men with the same disrespect you believe they give women. There ARE men who believe Males and Females are equal. If you find a man like that, don't push him away because you assume he's going to treat you like a sex object.

Just remember, it's not those men that treated women like crap for years. This is new group that hasn't done anything.

If you continued with you argument, you would have to conclude 1 of 2 things. Either:

1- If your gender has been treated like crap at any time, you have the right to treat any individual member of the opposite gender like crap, regardless of guilt. If this is true, the men you are being mean to, now have the right to be mean to any woman of their choosing. And that woman, any man. And that man, any woman.......

Or,

2- You believe it's okay for your gender to mistreat the other. But they do not have the same rights to mistreat you because your gender is better. Of course, if you believe this, you are no different than the men you are criticizing. So again, they could use the same argument against you, etc etc.

Ultimately, we have to judge each individual based on how they treat us, and not treat them a certain way because they are a member of a class who at one point in time had some other members that did something.

Of course, if you treat men badly, it's very possible that they will treat you badly right back. Fulfilling your "evil man" stereotype. You will continue to make that image stronger and stronger unless you take steps to break this cycle.

Another irony, is that by mistreating men, you turn them into the kind of man that doesn't respect women, and will treat them badly. So you are creating the very monster you are complaining about!

As a start, try to think of some men you don't think are completely evil. Your dad? Brother? Any little boys? Any famous humanitarians? Doctors that save people's lives? Firemen that pulled kids from the rubble of the World Trade Center. Any positive image you can give yourself to break your stereotype.

And I would probably get therapy too. They work every day with problems much more difficult than yours. A trained professional could definitely help you.

No reason to spend your entire life angry. Liking men is a lot more fun!

Hmm. Maybe you just need to not date them. Try dating women.