My vagina rejects everything that goes inside?!


Question: My vagina rejects everything that goes inside?
I've been sexually active for 10 years now. I've been with several people in my life time (yes, a lot but I've been with 1 man in that past 5 years). I've been with smaller men as well as HUGE men. But my vagina does not accept anything up there and in fact it rejects it. Even something as small as the nuva ring. When I have sex with a man, it takes a few minutes to even get it in there. Even with a lot of lube. Once I tried to have sex with someone and we actually "gave up". It was so awkward. Once a man actually gets inside, its easy for him to penetrate but his penis doesn't go further than 3 inches into my vagina. I always thought this would make me "bad in bed", but guys don't complain at all because apparently, I'm the tightest person they ever been with in their life. I've been told this by everyone I've been with. Plus I have the skills to make up for it. lol. But I have a constant problem when using condoms, my vaginal muscles actually clench so hard on the condom that when he pulls out after ejaculation, the condom gets stuck in my vagina and we need to pull it out. This happens 20% of the time I have sex about. I'm not able to conceive children, otherwise I'd probably have 5 kids about now. lol. But thankfully I never got an STD before.

Not just that, but when I use tampons, my body rejects them. I would need to change a tampon every hour because they just fall right out. They don't even go in all the way and I've been using them for years. I know how to insert a tampon.

Another thing, I tried the nuva ring. The nuva ring would always fall out within a few hours and I'd lose it and not know it. I even had a nurse practitioner put it up there for me because I was afraid I was doing it wrong and within a few hours, it slipped out.

Sex does not hurt. But I don't enjoy sex. It does not feel good. What is wrong with me? Anyone else have this problem? If I just stick a finger up there (and I have tiny fingers), I can actually feel my vaginal muscles trying to push it out, but I can use the force in my arm to keep it in there. But it feels like its trying to fight it out. Anyone else experience this?

Answers:

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Hmmm. Maybe it's some kind of vaginismus--an uncontrollable clenching of your vaginal muscles. Typical way to treat it is to use gradually increasing in size dilators to get the vagina used to having something in there. But maybe this isn't what's going on.



You may have something hidden deep in your subconscious that is causing this. Our body will do things to protect us even if we don't know why.
A good clinical hypnotherapist should be able to hellp you.



sounds like something you should talk to your doctor about. doesnt sound serious just never heard of that before. mabe your tense? try relaxing? definately talk to a doctor though.



This is something that you need to talk about with your gyno. She might be able to give you something to help "stretch" you out.



m ay be your a lesbain



You must be f**king bruce willis or jackie chan. bc, if I got this big - black - ashy- ugly rattlesnake inside you 'balls-plugged (no doubt!!) I guarantee that thing ain't coming out, until your loose, drained and exhausted...and when I'm soft and drained!!

BIGDADDY-BEDROOM BOSS!!!



It seems that you are not relaxed enough. Probably by now, you have been used to "stress" involuntarily when something enters your vagina and your muscles have the reflex to contract. This has probably become subconscious as it has happened so many times... I would try to stay relaxed as much as you can, you could even practice by doing "reverse kegel exercises"...




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