Ladies, Questions about sex? Please Help!?!
Question: Ladies, Questions about sex? Please Help!?
Anyway I guess my real question is, is it ok to masturbate using sex toys? I've been really horney and was doing regular masturbation, but lately wanted a tiny bit of penetration and don't wanna use my fingers. I was looking into some toys and came across one called "Bullet Vibrator". Is that an ok size for a virgin? Will that break my hymn? Cause I don't want my hymn. I know some girls hymns break if they are VERY athletic like gymnastics etc.
Well the ones I was looking into is like 2" Circumfrence and 5/8" Diameter and 2 1/4" length. Is this sizing ok for a virgin?
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That sounds fine. I think its great if you stay a virgin until marriage. As for your hymen if you have used tampons its probably already broken. If not the sex toy will.
You can use condom in order to avoic to have a baby,
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Accoring to the church its not good to do becuase God made sex for when your a married and for God. Masterbation is suppose to be "bad".
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That width should be fine for a virgin, but the length seems way too small...not only not long enough to give you the full effect, but short enough to "lose" in there. Best find something longer. Separate your lips a bit, then put it in very slowly. You will begin to feel pain if your hymen is stretching and about to tear, and then you can stop before it does tear.
Not only does waiting until you're married to have sex relieve you from the worries about STD's (at least, if HE is a virgin as well.. or if he's been tested negative), it is also the best gift to give your husband. It is like saying "YOU are the only one special enough to me to get all of me."
Stop worrying too much if you're gonna have sex someday about getting pregnant, STDs and other stuffs. If you're worried about it just use condom.
With regards to bullet vibrator, yeah I guess it's a good find for a virgin like you. As for the hymen, I'm not sure if it's gonna break your hymen or not. It doesn't matter anyway.
Best of luck to you girl.
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I think it's safe to say.....You are thinking and worrying about it all way too much. Don't put so much importance on all the details. When the time/man is right, let nature take it's course. At least you're clued up on the dangers & risks, but that aside I think you should just relax about it or everything will potentially freak you out. It's only sex. It's great, it's fun, it's sometimes awkward or uncomfortable but so long as you are safe; it's all just normal. Enjoy :)
Life.