Why do I no longer want to have sex with my fiancee?!


Question: Why do I no longer want to have sex with my fiancee?
I am totally and completely in love with him, as he is with me. I do find him attractive and he is sexy, we have great sex but for the past five days I haven't been in the mood, I'm on the pill but normally it doesn't effect my sex drive.
Could it be stress? Cos right now we are staying at my dad's til tomorrow and here I am edge a lot as there are so many rules to follow and things to do, my dad whinges if my fiancee pees too loudly for god's sake >_< whereas in my boyfriend's flat we can laze around all day or do what we like and it doesn't matter.
Also I'm having a vanity crisis at the moment, as I took my synthetic dreadlocks out about two weeks ago, my hair is basically almost shoulder length and I hate it, getting extensions next week as I feel so ugly and unattractive, when my boyfriend tries to engage sex or looks at my body I feel embarassed, shy and sick :(

Answers:

stress and insecurities can definitely lower your interest in having sex. i'm sure your fiancee still finds you attractive or he wouldn't be trying to have sex with you. hopefully once you're out of your dad's house, you will feel more relaxed and can start to feel more comfortable in your own skin. i wouldn't worry too much about it, you're only going to stress yourself out more.



Here is a good article about a lack of sex drive and what can be done about it.
http://www.holisticwisdom.com/stopped-wanting-sex.htm
Good Luck!




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