How to relax and make oral sex better for me?!

Oral sex is not just about going down for a munch. It should begin as a slow and teasing process around the inner thighs and base of the stomach and working your way towards the centre. It takes time and should certainly be done gently and without rush at the begining. As the centre is reached, again there should be no hurry and everything should be carefully explored. I have always thought of it as dealing with something very fragile and sensitive. As time goes by, the pace can be gradually increased and the movement can become a little more firmer and deliberate, involving shallow penetration and kissing. Oral sex should take time and last up to half an hour or even longer if the girl can handle this. In my expereince, oral sex is often superior to normal sex if done correctly and remembering its not a race. People often use it as foreplay to full sex, but if you look at it in the sense of just being another version of sex then full sex does not always need to happen as much satisfaction can be gained from oral itself. Oral sex should feel like you are in love with the greatest person in the world and if done right, it can be one of the best experiences to be had in the bedroom or wherever else you engage in it :)

yes it's supposed to feel awesome. the only way you can find out if you'll be able to enjoy it is by communicating with him and telling him what to try to make it better for you. and ya if you're not relaxed, you probably won't like it.

If you don't feel anything when you touch your cl*t then you need to see a doctor.

Keep trying , take your time and enjoy once you find "it" , watch out !!