My Bf and sex?????????????!
Question: My Bf and sex?????????????
I wanted to be on the safe side because I DON'T want to be a 16 year old mother so I made him wear a condom and he got really mad for some reason and kept saying I was making a big deal about it.
Answers:
You can get pregnant and diseases from "pulling out". Men release a pre-ejaculate that does contain sperm and seminal fluid. Although it's not much in volume, it only takes one of those little guys to get you pregnant. And STD's? You know better than that don't you. Good girl for making him wear a condom. If he's going to be a brat about it, tell him he won't get it at all without one. See how quick he changes his tune...
You are not making a big deal out of it. There are alot of teen mothers out there, and its great that you are being safe not only from stds but from pregnancy. Tell your bf straight up that if he has a problem with condoms then he can find a a different girl.
You can get pregnant with any method of sex. Condoms work about 95% of the time. With the pull out method, thre is still pre ***, which the guy doesn't feel, but it does have a bit of sperm in it.
GOOD FOR YOU!
Pull out DOES NOT WORK. If you need proof there's me, and all four of my unplanned brothers and sister.
You can get pregnant during ANY time of your cycle, there's NO safe time to have unprotected sex. Not only that, but guys leak pre-ejaculate out during sex and don't always know they're doing it, which can contain sperm. It only takes ONE sperm to make a baby, just one.
somewhere around 27 in every100 people using the pull out method get pregnant. dont just stick with that! im 16 too and have an IUD,..the most effective form of BC and will still use a condom! if he is mad at you, he is the one with an issue!
all of the statictice are on the site below and helped me a ton!! (Pulling out is called "withdrawl" on here.)
and apsolutly DO NOT let him pressure you into not using one! it just feels better for them, so thsts what they want.
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health…
I'm only 19 and married and i heard that even if they do pull out..you still have a chance of getting pregnant. So don't be afraid to tell him to put a condom on. i mean your young and you still have your life ahead of you...
Yes! It's very likely you will become pregnant if you engage in the pull-out method. Your boyfriend is being very irresponsible. Your policy should be no condom = no sex!