i am going to lose my virginity soon how can i stop the first time pain and bloo!

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Masturbate, use a lot of lubrication, and tell him to go slow and gentle.

A lot, but I usually save that much typing for chat since it's sort of a lot of info. BUT the article below is pretty complete.

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual…

there isn't alwaus blood, and the pain is unavoidable. if you have the right person though he will be gentle. just try to relax.

No nothing unless you pop your cherry yourself with a finger .., lol that wont help pain tho just use lots of lubricant and tell him to go slow

I all of a sudden feel so bad.