How do i ask my mom for birth controll?!


Question: How do i ask my mom for birth controll?
Hi, im 13, I KNOW! to young for sex! so don't lecture me about that. I ve known this guy for 4 years, and we have been REALLY close, for about 4 months now. And no im not thinking of having sex. I would defiantly like to wait. But since were getting so close, and touchy touchy, i don't want to make the mistake of getting caught up in the moment, and doing something stupid! And yeah, my mom has told me before, if i ever need anything to ask her. Well its not that easy. I want to ask her, but.. im afraid to. so how should i ask her? And don't give me those blunt answers like " mom i want birth control" thanks.

Answers:

Mom was the same way "if you need it ask" well it really is that easy! I'm only fourteen, and I take birthcontrol and I got it for the same reasons as you - I'm not planning on sex, but just in case. I asked by saying " mom me and my boyfriend are getting serious, and I really don't plan on having sex but just in case anything should happen, I would like to be put on birth control." and it worked! And that was when I was twelve! Don't be embarrassed either, the way I see it is if you are embarrassed to get protected then you aren't mature enough to have sex. It sounds like your mom and you have a good relationship, so don't be shy to ask. :)

Hope this helps :D



well you could make sure you have condoms so that if things get carried away at least you have that protection.
just think: asking your mom for birth control would not be as bad as having to tell her that you are pregnant. the responsible thing to do is be protected.
just tell her what you wrote here.. that you aren't sexually active yet, but it could happen and you just want to be ready if it does.



Tell her your periods are a bit heavy and you found out that birth control can make them less heavy & less painful. Since summer is coming up, tell her you want to feel better & have easier periods so you can enjoy swimming and stuff.



At first, give her hints. If you're really freaked out, try writing her a note for her to see or sending her a email. That's what I do.



ok first I HAVE to give you NEGATIVE ---Blah blah Bleep and other such Necessary Bu\-\- Sh|-|- . enough said












Now for your problem . What ever you do use Spermicide wheather on the Fkn pill or not
I have 12 very slutty years of S3x 5 or more times a week, with out a pregnancy scare [well a coupl a times for a few days maybe] But no matter the other form of B-C i use them everytime sometimes just to hope I Get laid but no biggie if it don't happen. I use V-C-F Films. cheap and easy too use secretly
I remove them from their foil and put them in my make up compact in saran wrap. then use one before the DATE starts . one INSIDE his condom-- that | PUT on for him [to be sure it is right] then after we have finished ----I put one in to sleep on . never doiuche it only makes it go higher in and sticks it to your \/ walls. No perfumes or strong soap NEAR that mucosa.. I am Blood related to 11 PILL BABIEs including myself. I do not advocate Early S3X . But if it is going to BE then protect against pregnancy so you do not F /\ uP your life entirely. [Wait and it is greaT]. I precticed Non Intercourse making out mostly as a tween and later for new Friends. . but the protection was there incase I "FAILED " and went all the way. Because the drive to Orgasm is not a mentaly controled issue .

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