Is it more of the responsibility of a girl to get herself wet or her partner to !

Before you race a car...you gotta warm up the engine.

There's no right way or wrong way. You do what works for you. It's not anyone's "job" or any one person is responsible.

Sometimes it can be a really big turn on for a man to watch you masturbate.

That's what foreplay is for. Getting the motor warmed up so the car is ready to run.

If you are having sex with a guy, I say it's his job to get you wet. He can't expect you to already be aroused and ready to go.

My boyfriend likes to finger me , or eat me out to get me wet . It's a total turn on for him when he can get me wet . I guess it all kind of depends on the person .