Being Touched In A Sexual Way ?!
Question: Being Touched In A Sexual Way ?
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Go to the police, he is a sexual predator, no matter who he is. If your having problems telling your parents, i suggest writing them and asking them to read it when your out of the house if you need to. His actions are completely inappropriate. don't go near him again. People like that don't change, and no matter what, don't let him win, fight, whichever, you have a right to be, and feel safe.
Tell everyone you possibly can. Don't let him get away with this. Tell your parents as soon as possible, you will be glad you did. This is not your fault, no one would ever think that about you. Good luck and I hope you have the courage to tell! Don't let him do the same thing to other girls.
TELL UR PARENTS, AND CALL THE POLICE U GUYS WONT BE BLAMED FOR ANYTHING CAUSE UR STILL MINORS AND UNDER 18 YEARS OLD AND EVEN IF U WERENT HE COULD STILL GO TO JAIL FOR THAT TELL UR PARENTS RIGHT NOW, SO THAT THEY COULD LOCK HIM UP FOR GOOD.
If this is true -- what your coach is doing is sexual molestation -- and illegal -- esp. since he is an authority figure (coach/teacher) -
Tell your parents that the team needs to have a meeting - and can they meet at your house --(or meet at a church or some other local meeting place) -NOT SCHOOL --
Then tell every girl to be at the meeting with their parents -- All of you must stick together --
When everyone is there -- you and the other girls tell them that the team has some information that they need to tell about -- say "This about about Coach ____ -- we are not comfortable with some of the things that are going on - and we didn't know how to talk with you (parents) about it -- He has seduced one girl on the team - and raped her(which is legally what having sex with a minor is!) - and he has been feeling up and kissing some of us -- and we need to have a talk before all of this goes any further --" By then- you are going to get questions from the parents - and each girl can tell her story --
Your friend that was raped - should have gone to the police immediately and got a rape kit done (for proof) - so now it will be her word against his --
Expect the police to be brought in on this - expect school officials to be brought in on this -- and expect your coach to face charges and be fired -- maybe even jail - So don't play at this if it is not absolutely true !
But this man is a sexual Predator and he is trying to seduce young girls -- and you will not be the last if something is not done -
OF COURSE they won't get mad! He raped one of the girls, and innapropriately touched the rest of you; that's illegal, especially considering that you're still underage (at least in America) and you ASKED him to stop. He could get in serious trouble for that. You need to talk to your parents and possibly alert the authorites, or at least get him fired. Good luck :)
What happened to your friend was rape! Your coach is a perv and he abuses his position as a man of authority. I was molested as a child and because I kept my mouth shut other kids got hurt as well. you need to turn him in and soon. he is a very sick man and you have done nothing to be ashamed of. This man needs to be taken away from any young women and put in prison. NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO TOUCH YOU IN ANY WAY it is not their right and you should never get used to it.
Ok first of (sighs) you NEED to get a restraining order for you and your team mates. Please PRETTY please tell your dad about or call the school/ leader of the gymnasts team or whatever just get the pervert fired or go to jail for sexual/raped charges. What he did to you guy WAS a big no no because it was agents your guy's will! I soo sorry about your friend that is a huge violation he must go to jail what he done to her.
Get the bastred fired/lock up for good. uhm.. >.<
you need to tell your parents. they will not be upset with you. they will definitely be upset with him, but you and the other girls are victim to sexual abuse and you definitely should tell them. if you don't feel ready to tell your parents, tell a trusted adult, but be aware, you are going to have to tell them eventually. it may help if you and your friend's tell someone together. that might make it easier. but you need to tell an adult about this before it's too late. because if he gets away with it, other's may possibly become victims. hun, you are not alone. it's all going to be ok.
I highly doubt that your parents will think that it's your fault. Many parents instinctively defend their children, especially since sexual assault is NEVER the victim's fault! He's very obviously taking advantage of you. Just tell your parents straight up. Tell them you have a problem and that you want to talk to them together. Sit them down and tell them everything you just wrote out on here and explain it to them. Something really needs to be done about this man because once you guys leave the team, he'll just keep doing it until he gets caught, and who knows how much worse it'll be by then? Trust me, your parents will understand, especially if you're really close to them. My parents were extremely sympathetic and caring when I confided in them about something similar that happened to me. You'll be just fine =)
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