I'm 15, 6ft tall, and extremely insecure, i feel so ugly!?!
Question: I'm 15, 6ft tall, and extremely insecure, i feel so ugly!?
Hey,
So i'm 15 and i'm around 6ft tall. It really get's me down cause people always comment on it. I've never had a boyfriend and i feel like it's because i just tower over everyone.
No one sees me for who I am, because i'm just some giant.
Please help me, I don't know what to do cause it's just getting me down. I'm fed up of it, even though i know i should be happy for who I am, it's just hard.
So can someone help me feel a bit better? Thanks :/ x
Answers:
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I'm sure that's difficult for you. As you get older though, people will see you for you, and not see you for how tall you are. I have a really good friend who is tall and I just see her as my friend, not my tall friend. Also, as you get older you will fell more secure about yourself as confidence is something that gets better over time. Also, the right guy will come along and he will appreciate you because your beautiful. Your still young, don't let it get you down, it will get better.
Do you play any sports maybe volleyball or basketball because being tall can be really goo in those cases. It could cause you to be the best. People who are "vertically challenged" wish they were really tall. I want to be that tall because I want to play college volleyball and being tall really helps that. They also pretty much only let tall people play front row and that's where I want to play. They could also be jealous because they want to be that tall.
Good Luck and don't worry it won't always be that hard
Don't worry! You'll grow into it. It's just hard being tall in high school because everyone is still growing. If people are commenting, it's because they're jealous. Everyone wants to be tall :) Who knows, you could be a model someday! It's hard to see now, but height is a good thing.
Don't feel insecure about it! When you're out in the world, you'll meet other tall people. The kids in your school just aren't done growing yet.
No worries!
Awww I love this question because I can relate to you :) in 14 and 5'11 and a quarter :) I honestly used to feel like that and ik it sucks!! I had a boyfriend in 6th grade but nothing serious think of all the benefits of being tall you can be a model and towering over people is fun haha I love being tall and you should too I've never met an ugly tall person :) if you have confidence in yourself it shows just think to yourself, I'm the sexiest beast alive :) if u believe it everyone else will too my mom is 6'3!!! She was married to my dad who is also 6'3 and now she has had so many boyfriends lol she's so confident!!! ur beautiful:)
i feel exactly the same way. except im 11, and im '5,3' and i tower above everyone and everyone except me has what they call a "boyfriend". you're not ugly, you're just different. everyone has a unique body type and all can be beautiful.
i have a friend kind of like you, but someone gave her the name of a modeling agency and once she got in, she became a very outgoing model and overcame what people told her and lived her life to the fullest.