embaressing problem...please help?!


Question: Embaressing problem...please help?
My new boyfriend and I have a problem when it comes to having sex. The problem is that we both don't feel anything. We are both turned on feel for sex but the problem is that when he is in me we both don't feel as much pleasure as we should. We did not have this problem in out previous relationships. My ex was bigger in size than he is. Could that be the reason? It feels like im too loose. My ex is the only guy i have been with so its not as if i've had lots of partners. What can we do to solve this problem because we do love each other and want to be together. Foreplay is really good and we look forward to having good sex too. But there was even an occasion during sex where he didnt even know he was not in me. I hate the fact that i cannot satisfy him and really want to change that. I do not have kids.

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Well, since you said that your ex was bigger than your current boyfriend is, it's probably possible that your ex might have stretched you out a little bit? Have you heard of Kegal Exercises? That's basically where you just tighten the muscle of your vagina...not with your had or anything like that, but just...kind of flex it? I don't really know how to describe it. Look it up if you're curious. But that can possibly help you guys.

Either that, or have you ever tried a different position? How about trying with you on top, or with you on your back, and your legs up over his shoulders? That could possibly help. It makes him rub on you in a different way, anyways.

sex without passion is as good as a paid sex (without feeling). I guess he is not the one in your heart hence you can't feel it and just going through the motions. Try to understand make love and having sex, hope it can helps.

You guys need to experiment with different positions. Just like regular sex is OK but its a lot better if I'm on top or from behind. Just a thought.

keegels ;) lol


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