I need somebody to talk to about my molestation ?!


Question: I need somebody to talk to about my molestation ?
I am twelve and I was molested and I havnt told anyone, and I feel really lonely and I get really shaky and feel sick randomly ever since .

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Talk to your parents or another trustworthy family member or better still- the police



You need to tell a parent, or someone close to you. That is not something to feel ashamed of, but it is a serious matter. Someone close to you should be able to help you, and it may be the last thing you want to do, but police really need to be involved. I really hope you concider oppening up to someone who can really help you. My mother was molested when she was younger and to this day she is still horrified, but i think if you talk about it and move forward then you will not be affected as much in the long run. Please tell someone other than strangers, you need to. I know it can't be easy, but letting it out will feel so much better



Talk with your mother immediately. If you don't have a mother, then discuss with your female guardian. You should receive mediacl attention; and, may require councilling. The sooner the better. Don't worry about the legal aspects; they'll happen as need be. The most important thing is to tell your mother. If you can't for whatever reason, then go to a clinic and discuss with the doctor on site. Again, ASAP. Don't look at this as being something that you caused; this was something done to you. Do NOT try to protect the other person. TAlk about it now; loudly and clearly. If you do not, then people will doubt you months from now.



My name is April and I am a survivor. I am a 30 year old female and I have helped many girls just like you. If you want to talk to someone you can talk to me on yahoo. jiffythemagicelf9@yahoo.com. There used to be groups of girls that would help each other and talk about how they got through it on livejournal.com but I don't know if anyone uses them anymore or if they have anything similar on the now popular social web sites. I have to warn you that posting this question isn't exactly safe. There are more perverts on the web than there are in the real world and I wouldn't want you to get more hurt than you already are. If nothing else please know you are not alone. Statistics say 1 in 4 women have been assaulted sometime in their life. The statistics are based only on reported cases and there are a large number of girls/women who never report what happened to them to the proper authorities. I am one of those women. The shaking and the feeling sick will pass. You do need to tell someone though even if it is just your guidance councilor at school. They can get you the proper help. Take care. You are not alone.



look, I don know if this is a joke or anything, and if it is then you are a very sick person.

but if it isn't, then there are a lot of people out there willing to help...If you have access to a phone the. you can call 1800 551 800 it's a free call and you can talk to someone who can help you...

goodluck <3
~Indie



Was it in the past 72 hours? If so, go to the ER and tell them you have been raped. Be sure to keep the clothes / underwear you were wearing so they can get the semen and catch the bast***.

But if it's been a while, talk with a psychologist or at least tell your mom. It's important to tell someone so you can get help.



tell your best friend but MAKE SURE SHE IS TRUSTWORTHY AND SHE HAS NEVER TOLD SOMEONE ELSE ONE OF YOUR SECRETS BEFORE. try to find someone a little older by 1-3 years though. if you have an adult you can trust or feel close to, DEFINITELY tell them too. i really do hope you feel better <3 <3 <3

i am 13 so i can know a little bit of what i would do



You need to talk to an adult that you trust. If you don't feel like you can tell your parents, you should go to a school counselor, teacher, adult family member, coach, pastor, etc...

You can also call 1-800-4-A-CHILD, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and push 1 to talk to one of the counselors there.



One of these two numbers should help you. If you live in the U.S call 1-800-827-7571 Or if you live in Canada call 1-800-668-6868. These are kids help lines and they deal with problems like your talking about.



tell your parents ASAP!!!!!!

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If you need someone to talk to IM me. ms.santaandrew is my email



Talk to an adult who u r close To or a guidance counselor so they can help u



you poor thing:(




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