my first time for sexual intercourse.?!

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If he knows it's your first time then he should be gentle and easy with you and not expect anything. Just try and stay comfortable, make sure you feel it's the right time and enjoy it.

Hey! : )
First of all, Make sure you have no doubts about this.
You never want to do anything you'll regret.
If you have decided that he is the one and this is what you want to do...
Don't worry ! If you love each other that's all the matters. He knows it's your first time,
and he's probably super excited. He won't be worried about whether your good in bed or not- HE'LL JUST BE SUPER HAPPY THAT HE IS GETTING SOME ;)
Everyone gets nervous, everyone doesn't know what they are doing.
Just talk it over with him.
It's a pretty straightforward thing- you can't mess up too badly at all.

And trust me,
you will exceed his expectations-
: ) I bet you anything.

personal experience

Everyone's first time is different. I don't know how much you do and don't know so i'll cover the basics.

1) It hurts. Every person is different. Some hurt a lot, some don't hurt at all, but be aware it may hurt your first time. The best way to sort this is relax, make sure you're very turned on, and if when he first penetrates it hurts, use lots of lube and try again. Go slow and inch it in, giving yourself time to adjust. Once he's fully in, wait a bit before thrusting, so you have time to adjust and get used to it. Hopefully with this advice it won't hurt.

2) You may bleed. Some women bleed a little after their first time (i assume you're female...if not please ignore this bit. Number one still applies though). This is normal. It's because a bit of skin inside you (your hymen) will break. Not everyone bleeds (i didn't) but some do, so if you see little spots of blood on the sheets don't panic. It's normal.

3) Use a cushion under your bum to help with angle. It sounds funny but it's amazing how much difference it can make to a position. An awkward or aching position can become much more comfortable with a pillow or cushion.

4) Have a towel underneath you. The towel will catch any blood there may be (and is useful for you to wipe lube off your hands). Stops the pillow/cushion getting all dirty.

5) Use a condom. Make sure he puts it on and make sure he knows he's putting it on correctly.

I think that's about it! Go slow, relax and have fun. The first time is awkward and scary, this is completely natural don't worry about it. Just try to enjoy it. After the first bit (penetration) everything will be fine and you can lie back and have fun.

Hope this helped, good luck xxx

Personal Experience

I did it with my husband after the marriage I was a bit nervous,although my friends given me enough information, he took about an hour in talks and foreplay.
it was a bit uncomfortable for a few seconds when he entered in, after some time there was a wave of ecstasy.
really it was very sweat.
but the orgasm I have now is more pleasurable than first one.

Why are you having sex if you're not ready? If you uncomfortable, the muscles will tense up which will cause it to be more painful. If you need to ask Yahoo Answers of all places, you're obviously not well informed.

http://www.helpingteens.org/articles/sex…

Please don't be another stupid person not knowing anything about sex but being ignorant about it, resulting in pregnancy...

Well if he knows your a virgin he will take it slow and should be very gentle. If your unsure think about it some more. Is it something you really want to do? Its natural for everyone to be a little nervous for their first time. Just before it happens take a deep breath and just push all of the anxiety out of your body. That's what helped me anyways. Hope I was able to help, best of wishes!

If your not ready yet, don't do it. Your muscles will tense, and it will be ten times more painful.

He should know your virgin and take it easy on you. If he doesn't, bop him one ;)

First of all, RELAX! You must relax or it'll make it harder for him to enter you, it will hurt a little or feel uncomfortable but if he's gentle and slow you'll be fine!

Good luck!

first time sex 101

http://www.scarletee
n.com/article/sexuality/first_intercou…

put a condom on his joint , sit back and relax as it enters you