how to not be so self conscious?!

I'm almost 20 and I have just as small of boobs. You can't do anything about it. That's just how God made you. Yeah, it's not the ideal look you want, but there is nothing wrong with it. I used to be so sooooo self conscious about my breast size, I still kind of am. Mature guys really don't care about breast size. Sure, most guys like big boobs, but honestly no one is perfect. Usually the girls with big boobs are either overweight or had surgery. Obviously some girls just get lucky and have amazing bodies. But you are special because of the way you are now. Don't go changing. If you have amazing confidence and rock that bikini, no one is going to be like "wow you have super small boobs" and then laugh. If they do, they are fricken idiots. Like you can't help how big or small certain body parts are. If you could, everyone would be average and looks the same. So don't worry about it. You are at the age where it seems like all the boys are into is boob size. Wait a few years for those boys to mature and you will see a big difference. (I was just assuming that's what made you a little self conscious).

Anyways, start taking out some of that padding. I promise you look great!

experience

Cal - listen to LoLo and take her as your hero ;o) She is absolutely right - and I agree with her from a boy's point of view. Start cutting down on the padding - no wonder you are self-conscious if you have to worry all the time about that ;o)

32A is a actually a marvelous size. When yours have been loved a little, you will feel very differently about them yourself too. Look forward to that. And start by relaxing a bit more - then I am sure everything will happen as it is supposed to. You may end up being the girl who feels best about all these things - exactly because you went through a little bit extra. Sometimes it is like that.

There's this book you should read. it's called I Am An Emotional Creature by Eve Ensler. It's a really great book and a real eye opener. You'll love it and probably be less self consious after reading it. You should also watch the movie The Itty Bitty Titty Comittee.

PS small breasts are beautiful and aren't anything to be self consious about.

Its the nipples that count. Size don't mean anything to a mature guy. Look at all the actresses who have small boobs like Kate Hudson. There are many many more. Lose the padding!

There is nothing wrong with small ones
you are only 16
play with them at night and they will grow