Please, can you talk me out of this?!


Question: Please, can you talk me out of this?
I am two years younger than my bf and we are both under age. I don't want to say my age cause it just bugs me. He isn't pushing to have sex but i can tell he in interested and i am too. I don't want to feel this way. I am looking for doctors, teachers, parents or anyone who actually has some knowledge about this to convince me it's a bad idea. Please help!

Answers:

The fact that you posted this question proves you are not mature enough to be having sex. For the sake of the human race, do not have sex or reproduce.



Jon V, said it right- the fact that you are looking for someone to help talk you out of it is reason not to. Plain and blunt, you aren't ready and regardless you should secure with the fact that you want to wait. It is your right and privilege.

If you're looking for scare tactics, search sexually transmitted diseases, they are WAY more common than you think. The stats are 1 in 5 people have an STD in the USA. If you are underage... that is a long time to live with an STD. You can take all the precautions however, as the infamous saying goes... it only takes one time.

http://www.globalherbalsupplies.com/herpes/stats.html



Your first time should be special. With someone you've been wiith for awhile (6 months plus) and you love not 'like'. Your a teenager and your going through a lot of changes. You will want to have sex, but try not to.

Remember you will feel extremly sh!tty if this guy leaves you after. You will feel lost and empty like you were used. Even if this guy says he loves you tell him no. If he actually lives you he would wait for you to be ready.



Having sex is your choice hun_your giving away the only thing you have that you can never have again_All guys want sex_thats all they thing about::us girls are more emotional about this_i was 15 when i lost mines_and at the time::i wasnt thinking about what i was doing until after it happoned__and i realized that i just gave something away that was mines_having sex shudd be an important decision for you to make_if your boyfriend respects you then he whould wait until your ready_if he keeps on forcing you to do it_he has no respect for you and ur body what so ever_you have the right to say no_i had pregnancy scares_std scares i went through hell at such a young age_and now that im older i know better now_i was so stoupid back then_i know you might be inlove him and you might think hes the one_but you should wait until you know that you wont regret it_please hun::i was just like you::in your foot steps_i did it and i wish i hadent_i just wanna wish you luck and i hope you make the right decision and remember if u dont wanna do it and hes pushing you to have sex_then he doesnt respect you_your body is a temple_take care of it good luck ;]



id say if you can... wait a little longer, If you are under the age of 15, definitely wait. but if you do have sex with him. Just make sure to be on the pill, have him wear a condom, and make sure that you truley love him. And make sure you are 100% comfortable with him. Good Luck:)



STD's,genital warts,cervical cancer,A BABY,pregnant,STD's,hiv's, ew don't have sex it's disgusting to have sex before marriage it's degrading yourself and your self esteem and what are you gonna do if you get pregnant?!?!

My brain



well, my first time was with my boyfriend of 2 years(and counting ^-^ ), and I was 17, he had just turned 18.

Ok, so, ignoring the ages....I kindaaa regretted it..just because it hurt. (im not getting into to much detail as to why.. *wink, wink* lol) I only regret the first time though, I couldnt enjoy it bc I was nervous and it hurt.

It didnt happen for me, but i guess some guys could just skip out on you after. And that would hurt you beyond belief.



Obviously, you have been brought up in the right manner. You know that it is a bad idea and you are asking for someone to confirm your ideas.
Are you ready for estrogen dangers, STD dangers, bladder infections, yeast infections, possibly getting pregnant, ready to bring up a child? Most teens who are having sex now, aren't, but when it is thrown in your face in sex education class, you feel you have to go out and try it.
I am glad to see that there are still teens who think twice, and value their reputation and respect themselves enough to hold out for their husband or wife. Keep up the good work, and stick with your thoughts.
If you are afraid, then don't do it, because that is when something happens.




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