Has your guy ever gotten soft during sex?!
Question: Has your guy ever gotten soft during sex?
Has this happened to you?
Answers:
This happens to plenty of people and it is not you. Sometimes it helps if you don't switch positions a lot because during switching positions a guy may lose his erection. Some guys are just simply better at keeping it up than others. With guys an erection is more of a physical than mental thing. With your guy he may just have a hard time physically keeping it up. Don't think that it is because you are doing something wrong. Next time just ask him if there is something you can do next time to help him keep it up longer because you love having sex with him. It may be awkward but once you get the problem resolved you won't have to worry anymore. Hope this helps!
Yes, it happen to my bf sometimes, he say I don't be doing anything during sex, but just be laying there while he does the work, (which isn't true) he gets turned off, than he gets soft. Or sometimes, when we try to have sex in his room, some of his relatives passes by his door, he gets nervous, and lose focus, cause he doesn't want nobody to knock on the door and disturb us
yes it has. my boyfriend was so focused on being gentle and worrying about hurting me during sex that he lost it for a few minutes. it's not you that made him lose it sometimes they just do or they are worrying about hurting you or they are not doing good. just asking if everything is okay what can you do to help him get it back up. sometimes some positions don't stimulate him enough and he can lose it. yes it can be awkward but don't be embarrassed to ask if everything is okay. image what he feels like when he loses it. make sure to let him know its okay. my boyfriend has come and gone soft even before i even reached an orgasm and he felt like he failed me so much. but he didn't he still felt soo good and even though he went soft after he still made me happy.
Yes... It tends to happen when my husband is under a lot of stress and his mind isn't focused. When that happens, I tell him it's ok and then he helps me to finish.
Yes.
But mostly if it's too hot or if he's been drinking (been together 12 yrs). We usually get creative and bring him back to life though! ;)
Take care!
Nope sorry. I can imagine how awkward that would be
it means he's not attracted to you