Sex with him is not pleasurable...?!


Question: Sex with him is not pleasurable...?
Alright, I lost my virginity to guy #1 a little over a year ago and from day 1 it has never felt "good". I would just lay there or do what he wanted and in my mind I would be thinking "I can't wait for this to be over". Oral sex with him doesn't feel good either. I have had 2 orgasms with him, 1 when I was stimulating myself while having sex and the other was before we EVER had sex I guess we can call it an intense, grinding makeout session (fully clothed). The fact that I had an orgasm and he didn't even touch me makes me feel like it may be a mental thing.

Anyway, we had broken up and I started dating guy #2, at first the sex with this guy #2 didn't feel like anything but then one night it was like something switched and it was an amazing feeling and I would have an orgasm with him EVERY time without even having to stimulate myself as well as I'd have an orgasm when he would give me oral sex too.

Why don't I feel anything with guy #1?? Guy #2's penis is larger width wise but it's not like I'm a loose girl because guy #1 is always saying how "tight" I am... so whats the deal??

Answers:

It's all in your mind, Dear Heart. Apparently there is a mental connection that you didn't have with the other guy. With females, great sex is mostly between our ears. AND there is a difference between making love and having sex. TC



Um, hang on.
If you don't want to have sex, then don't, and you shouldn't be.
Sex won't be pleasurable unless you want it...
You let guy #1 use you.

Save sex for someone really special, for a guy that you love.




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