My husbands best friend has seen my girl area during check. Reply if you underst!


Question: My husbands best friend has seen my girl area during check. Reply if you understand the seriousness but do not?
So,my husband's best friend is Doctor & male Gynecologist & runs his own polyclinic with his wife who is a child Specialist, in Wichita, NYC. We are very close family friend and meet over every weekend for a get-together. Last month, I had some vaginal itching & pain in left boobs, So my husband sent me to his best friends clinic. He made me naked since wanted to do mammography on my boobs & check vagina. I did that of no shyness since he is a doctor and our family friend too & I was examined in presence of his wife.

Later, after a week, my husband informed me that his friend (not as a doctor) has requested him to have sex with me after he had seen me nude and told that I have an bouncy cute boobs and sexy big vagina. Yes, it is true that I am very beautiful with a super-model cut body & figures. In exchange,he is ready to offer his wife to my husband who also is equally beautiful. Since we are so close to each other & so helping, we do not want to break our relations but my husband is strictly against it. Although my husband has already refused him but he again requests for just once & never again. He says he has started fantasizing about me every night. My husband knows him for 8 years and he was never like that. To me also, so far he used to behave with great respect. Suddenly this kind of demand has made us upset. My husband will never be agree even if I may for the sake of our good friendship.

Please reply and No indecent answers please.

Answers:

Although I am too young to answer your question but understand your real genuine problem. Yes, It happens in life. Why all readers are so negative to this question but No one is able to offer right suggestions.

First of all, I appreciate your husband's right step in this case. He is a real man.

Secondly, he may be very nice friend to your family but his male hood just turned on after seeing your nude model type body which is very natural phenomenon. Anyone, may fall in trap irrespective of his profession. We all are human being and like good things in life. It is otherwise rightly said that others wife will always look sexier than yours.

Now, the answer is, to start maintaining distance slowly. Take his wife in to confidence and politely refuse his demand. Need not to be harsh. His wife will never like sharing her husband, as I guess. Refuse weekend meetings to prevent his fire and do not visit his clinic again.

My suggestion



If this is for real and you are not a troll you need to report him to the AMA because what he is doing is a serious breach of professional conduct. And DO NOT have anything further to do with him. And if I were your husband, I would beat the crap out of him



Swap partners? The friendship was already imperiled when the doctor-friend made the request to your husband. Agreeing to the request may ultimately harm your marriage.



He examined you as a DOCTOR, it's VERY unprofessional for him to act this way, friend or not.



Sorry. But he shouldn't be practicing medicine, and I am sure his wife does not agree with him.



omg thats not right



lol ok



That sounds very unprofessional of your husbands friend for one he was your doctor therefore there should be a doctor to patient confidentiality and should have never spoke of you that way and 2 your husband is a strong man for not beating crap out the guy and you should never agree to somethin like that for the "sake" of a friendship because you might save a so called friendship but it could ruin your marriage so just ask yourself what's more importan your marriage or being friend with a couple of swinger who want you and your husband



You and your husband need to break all ties with this man and his wife, What he has proposed is indecent and not to be tolerated. It would be a different story if this was something that both couples had decided to do but asking for this after examining you is beyond wrong. The easiest thing to do is to not ever see them again either professionally or personally. He broke the boundaries of friendship and as a friend neither you or your husband will ever be comfortable with him and why would you want to?? This is not a "normal" doctor or friend request...



Seriously, break all ties with this man, and his family, and report him to the police, and the medical board, because he's 1 step too close, to raping his next patient, or you, because flaunting his obsession like that, should scream STALKER to you.

That was breaking all ethics rules, and this man shouldn't be practicing medicine, he's a menace to society.




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