Im scared that when i will start my period that....?!
Question: Im scared that when i will start my period that....?
im 14 almost but who cares.
im scared that when ill get it, ill have to fcking tell my mom which i DO NOT wanna do because im afraid she'll overreact like oh honey, did you get yours, do need a pad? r u pmsing? do you have cramps??? i on mine are you on yours? you can talk to me! im so happy!
*ringring*
hey everyone marina (me) got her period im so happy, now i have a reason to talk to her. im so happy, i cant wit till she grows boobs and asks me for bras and tampons and pads. im so happy.
im afraid that she'll over react when i get it. i think shell be asking me if im ok or if i feel ok every second of my life and shell be asking me if i need anything or reminding me that i can talk to her about anything.
i mean i know i can talk to her and stuff. it seams that now, since im not really much of a woman (dont wear a bra, dont shave, dont have a period) that i dont really have anything to talk to my mom about. i think my mom's waiting for me to come up to her and say mom i got it every day.
one time, i worked up my courage to ask her if i can start shaving my legs, and she just said WHAT!????!!!! and started laughing at me. and she tried to tell me that i dont want to shave because it'll just grow back faster. and so i never shaved. and every girl in PE has nice legs and you can't see hair or anything and i feel so wierd cuz i do. and i dont feel good talking to my mom about any girl stuff after that time.
but anyway. im scared that she'll be so excited and start talking to me more now that she'll have something to talk to me about. i just dont want her to be like that and tell everyone and stuff. im just afraid of her asking me about it so much. im kind of thinking she will.
and about the shaving thing, i do want to shave and stuff but after i had her laugh in my face when i asked her last time, i never want to ask her any girl stuff again.
anyway im afraid she'll be too excited and act like a retard about it! and start asking me like everything about it.
im not THAT close to my mom to be able to talk to her about anything but when i do get my period and stuff, what am i gonna do? i dnt really wanna talk to her about it cuz im not that open to her about girl stuff to talk to her casually. i just dont want her to be an idiot about it and start talking to me about it and asking me every day about it and stuff.
what do i do?
any advice?
Answers:
you sound exactly like me..i'm not allowed to shave my legs to.
when i started my periods i had just turned 14 and it only happens when you get to a certain weight so i just sent my mum a note saying 'mum please don't fuss but i started' she understood.
your mum should understand that your embarrassed and respect your wish to be private about it, i understand how you feel though your mum will be doing what she thinks is best to help and you don't want her to. just ask her if she won't make a fuss.
hope i helped xx
Getting your period is not as big of an extravaganza as you are making it out to be. Tell her. She and all her friends and relatives know about it, I doubt they will make a big fuss about you getting it, it's a normal part of life. If she is that excited about it maybe you could get a big celebration and some new clothes and stuff. You might want to take advantage of your mother's enthusiasm...
Well im almost 14 too , but i was 10 when i started . So we have a very different case here . When i was 10 i didnt know that much about it . Then when i saw it ... i was just like"waaa the hell is that!" . So i thought it was nothing , just acted normal , thought it would go away . Until i saw it the next day and the next . Well my mum was doing the laundry and she seen my pans (i know that's gross but .. ) and that's it . I haven't really helped you at all but .. but there is an idea for you ... just act normal put your pans in the wash and let your mum find out that way . Good Luck !xx