LADIES, I could use your help?!


Question: LADIES, I could use your help?
Ok I am a 13 year old girl, and I still haven't gotten my period. It really sucks, I feel left out and such. Like not to sound weird or anything but one of the reasons I want my period to come is so I'll grow bigger boobs. Right now I am a 32 A, and when I see all these girls at school who have HUGE boobs, getting all the attention, I get jealous.

Ok so anyway, maybe about 3 months ago, I went pee and there was some blood in my undies. I was told this was spotting, because I didn't ever get any more blood that day, or ever. Does this mean I'll get my period soon? I have pubic hair, lol. But right now, no armpit hair. I can just feel a little peach fuzz in them. And occasionally I will get cramps, just short little jabs in my tummy, and get ready for some too much informations, lol, I get a LOT of viginal discharge. Like to the point where I'm afraid if someone will see my underwear when they are washing them. And today when I woke up I had 1 crusty nipple, wtf? And I'm just afraid WHEN I'll get my period, like when I'm swimming, (I swim a lot during summer) or when I'm playing softball, (I'm on the school's softball team) or maybe just in class. Talk about AWKWARD.

So I guess what I'm asking is when will I get my period, how do I prepare, and can I know when it will come or make it come faster? Thanks for your help and nothing rude please, thanks.

Answers:

I'm 15 and my periods started when I was 11. It was AW FUL. I was the first one out ouf my age group to start and I hated it. Like you, i felt left out. It WILL happen at some point, you still have plenty of time. For now, just enjoy being without them. Trust me, I wish I could have started a bit later they are really annoying, especially when your trying to get used to them.

Regarding the fact that you want to get bigger boobs, it will happen all in time. My boobs are only a 36b. And guess what? I love them!! They are the right size for my body and if they were any bigger it would look silly and out of proportion with the rest of my body. I know they will probably grow some more, but not much. And these girls are getting attention because they have developed early? From a mature point of view do you really think that the attention they are getting is positive? I don't think so. Some boys will just use girls for having them. Would you really want that? My mums friend got a reduction because of all the abuse she got from Men. Also, boobs add pounds ;)

From the sounds of it, your periods should be coming soon. Don't worry about anyone seeing your discharge because its perfectly natural, if your mum washes them she would have went through the same too so don't worry. Everyone gets them.

And as for when it happens, its not like alot of blood will come out at once, just a tiny little bit. So you are likely to notice before anyone else does. But make sure you carry round some pads or tampons where ever you go.

I hope I helped :)

me



It's normal don't feel left out. Also I have had like 8 periods and am 13 with 34 a/b so they don't make them grow much bigger at all!



There's nothing you can do to make your period come any quicker (and why anyone would want that is beyond me). The best way to stay prepared for it is to carry a tampon or pad in your purse/backpack, so that just in case it starts when you're at school, you'll have something with you already.
As far as swimming goes, I was a swimmer in middle school and high school and I just wore tampons during my period with no problems (besides wearing a pad in the pool is awkward and unsanitary).
Unfortunately, there's not really a way to know EXACTLY when your period will start, so the best you can do is just stay prepared.
As far as wanting bigger boobs, I didn't even get boobs until I was about 16 (and I started my period when I was 14), so I feel your pain there. My boobs grew a little more while I was in college so now I"m a 34B/C and quite happy with them. Give yourself time...and even if you end up with small boobs like me...just remember...there are LOTS of guys out there that LOVE small boobs (my bf does)!
Good luck

experience - I'm 25



Just be patient. Your period is nothing you want to rush, believe me! Just be prepared by keeping some extra pads in your purse or backpack just in case you start. Those jabbing pains could be you ovulating, which means that you can start your period soon. And starting doesn't mean that it'll make your boobs grow! I've had my period for four years and i'm still a 34a. There is no way to rush your period, and it'll come!




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