My wife gets angry when others talk to me when we are out together! Advice?!
Question: My wife gets angry when others talk to me when we are out together! Advice?
Answers:
Some jealousy is normal in any relationship.Its a dont take my stuff - just like when u were a kid.Times are so different now tho. I am 39 and my boyfriend is 52. He is the most awesome man in the world and i cant get enough of his attention. The age thing doesnt matter ok.He's into Hot Rods and has cars and money. Im not impressed with the cars and stuff just him and he cant understand why. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ! You cant capture a stallion , tame it and expect it to be the same. You are who you are . She loves you for you and she doesnt want to lose that. Just talk and reasure her. She has to deal with her own insecurities. They will go away after time.
Take her by the hand, introduce her to people you are speaking to, and tell people that you don't care to talk "shop" all the time - talk about your job all the time - but if they would like to talk to you during the week they could do that. Say something interesting about your wife that she could possibly have in common with that person.
Your wife is acting jealous and childish here. I'm sorry, but she KNEW your profession when she met you, and she knew the amount of local celebrity that would come with it. She decided to marry you anyway, and she has to accept that she is not the only person in the entire planet that can have your attention. She has lead a privileged life and with this has come a spoiled attitude and great expectation. She is young, hormonal, flighty, insecure, and manipulative. If she married you with the intent to ''change'' you, your relationship is doomed. Couples have to take the good with the bad when they marry, and they have to accept that people will never ''change''.
My advise to you: Counseling, or find a mature wife.