My wife gets angry when others talk to me when we are out together! Advice?!


Question: My wife gets angry when others talk to me when we are out together! Advice?
Im 32 and have been married for almost 4yrs, I am crazy about my wife and couldn't get enough of her, we are both from Italy, We married after 2yrs together, she is 25 & comes from a wealthy family. I am a professional motorcycle racer & also tests GP cars and does rally driving. We are really happy together and i always tell her how much im in love with her, hold her next to me or just spend hours in bed with each other. I love her very much but we argued many times because of her dislike for what i do for a living, she knew all this when we met, I've been in accidents & previously broken both my legs, shoulder, arms etc. some of which i've had to have operations on but never give myself the full time to heal after them and he'd be back on the bike even when she'd beg me not to. We both have many friends and when we are out together at a friends party, everyone is at me, talking about my job etc. Half the night its like i've lost my wife in the crowd & i hate coming across as ignorant to others. When i call her back over she will just ignore me or says that 'they are more important that her', she can sometimes be stubborn as she is use to getting her way but i love her to death, sometimes i feel insecure that she might leave me because of her youth & that it terrifies me. It really pisses her off when im smothered by people grabbing my attention but there is nothing i can do as its part of my job. Any advice?

Answers:

Some jealousy is normal in any relationship.Its a dont take my stuff - just like when u were a kid.Times are so different now tho. I am 39 and my boyfriend is 52. He is the most awesome man in the world and i cant get enough of his attention. The age thing doesnt matter ok.He's into Hot Rods and has cars and money. Im not impressed with the cars and stuff just him and he cant understand why. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder ! You cant capture a stallion , tame it and expect it to be the same. You are who you are . She loves you for you and she doesnt want to lose that. Just talk and reasure her. She has to deal with her own insecurities. They will go away after time.



Take her by the hand, introduce her to people you are speaking to, and tell people that you don't care to talk "shop" all the time - talk about your job all the time - but if they would like to talk to you during the week they could do that. Say something interesting about your wife that she could possibly have in common with that person.



Your wife is acting jealous and childish here. I'm sorry, but she KNEW your profession when she met you, and she knew the amount of local celebrity that would come with it. She decided to marry you anyway, and she has to accept that she is not the only person in the entire planet that can have your attention. She has lead a privileged life and with this has come a spoiled attitude and great expectation. She is young, hormonal, flighty, insecure, and manipulative. If she married you with the intent to ''change'' you, your relationship is doomed. Couples have to take the good with the bad when they marry, and they have to accept that people will never ''change''.
My advise to you: Counseling, or find a mature wife.




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