My girlfriend and I are both virgins, and she says we would be having sex except!
Question: My girlfriend and I are both virgins, and she says we would be having sex except that she's afraid of the pain?
Answers:
i remember that was the main thing that i worried about..but its wasnt that bad....yes it hurt but its not that bad....As long as you take your time, make sure shes is totally comfortable.
i think as long as you suport you girlfriend and dont push her in to anything every thing will be ok :D
You sound like a nice girl who loves his girlfriend
If you've been together for a while, care about each other, both feel comfortable with it AND are over the age of consent (16 in most states), then go for it.
If she feels ready, she'll do it, if not, then you'll just have to wait for her. If you do coerce her, she may end up regretting it and resenting you for it.
If you both aren't sure, and it sounds that way, then don't do it. Why the hurry?
Best wishes.
Sure, get married first.
She can have doctor surgically remove the hymen so there is not the ripping from penetration
Sex hurts the first time but it's not that bad. If she uses tampons then there is really no pain at all.
just tell her you think it'll hurt too and that you'll start off slow and move to the pace she likes.
Just wait till she's ready. It will all be worth it in the long run.