I feel like I am losing my mind help please?!


Question: I feel like I am losing my mind help please?
This may seem like such a stupid, dumb question. But Im worried. Please dont be cruel or mean.
I am 20 and for some reason my mind keeps thinking I am not a virgin, even though my ex boyfriend said I am as we never had sex. I even told my friends some of the things that me and my ex did and they said I am a virgin. My mind does this to me a lot of the times with other things as well ( I over analyze things sometimes). I keep thinking I might not be a virgin even though my ex said I am. He has no doubt about that as he is also a virgin as well and we never had sex. Please help me. I dont know what to do. I have no idea why I am thinking this way. A couple of days ago, I knew I was a virgin. I mean I have evidence that states that I am a virgin. Like I said to my ex 2 months ago: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" We were on skype when I said this. I never saw him after this skype conservation. So why the hell am I all of a sudden thinking Im not a virgin???!!! Serious answers only please. The reason why it is a big deal to me is because I want to stay a virgin until I am married. I want to know why all of a sudden I am thinking this.
Please dont be rude.

Answers:

Honestly, you gave yourself the answer when you said "I over analyze things sometimes." You ARE over analyzing. If you didn't have sex, you're a virgin.
If you're REALLY worried, you can have whoever you see for your annual gynecological exam verify that you are a virgin. I would also see a counselor to help you find ways of calming yourself when you start over analyzing. Over analyzing can really mess with your self esteem, too.

Best wishes on your journey



No wonder... You are blonde now it makes since. Lol anyways you possibly could just want to have ___ with him badly i dunno.



my mind hurts reading this. Wow..You should know if your a virgin or not. Seek help, because that just sounds weird. Explain all that to a mental health doctor.



Every night you keep asking the same question. Why are you obsessed about being a virgin?



Wow, i do that to sometimes.... Its really weird, but just keep telling yourself you ARE!!



well go find it




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