I'm pregnat and I'm 13?!!!!?!


Question: I'm pregnat and I'm 13?!!!!?
Ok so I preganet now and only 13 I won't give my baby up. What do I do?!

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There is a resource to help you. It is called "BIRTHRIGHT" . Look it up and call them. They offer FREE counseling and support and help you to sort things out at no charge. They receive many calls from young girls like you. If you leave a message, they will return your call. Most likely, there will a BIRTHRIGHT office where you live. Hang in there !



Oh, no. I'm not going to say that you've ruined your life, but you've ruined the life you have now. Going back to your old lifestyle is impossible. I completely respect your decision not to give up the baby, but with that comes lots, and lots of responsibility. Childbirth can cost around $7,000 and it cost $23,000 in the child's first 17 years. I sincerity hope that the father is willing to help, but, at age 13, I assume he will just try to stay as far away as possible, not ready for that kind of responsibility, so what you need to do is find someone (a parent, sibling, aunt, grandparent, anyone that is above the age of 20 or in that range) that is willing to help. Go to a library and check out books on child development, parenting, childbirth, and everything you can get your hands on that seems like good information of the years your going to face. Babies are not the sleeping, laughing, cute face you always think of. The majority of babies scream their heads off at one in the morning for no reason and cry when anything is wrong. My own mother, a loving, calm person, once told me that when she had her first child she actually got so angry at her once that she could see why a mother would want to just pick the kid up and throw them into the wall. It's THAT bad. Something you need to consider is what is best for your baby. If you keep him/her, their life wont be filled with fun and the carefree spirit every child should have. With a jobless mother who is still in school, (presumably) no father, little money, and everything else, both your lives will most likely be plagued with stress, hurt, and regret. The best thing might be to give the kid up for adoption. I'm not saying it wont be hard, I'm just saying that It might be whats best for both of you. I know it will be hard either way, and I'm sorry, but that's just the ugly truth.



Keep your legs closed, for one, and for two, consider your options and talk with your parents about what happened and your situation. At thirteen, being a parent would be extremely hard, and I bet your own parents wouldn't want to take care of another kid, so I suggest getting an abortion or have the baby and put it up for adoption. BUT it's not like you have a choice if you want to keep the baby, there's a policy in America where you can't have the baby until you're a legal adult, which means five years for you without a child.



I am 13 and if i got preg, not that i will ever this young, i would not have the baby i know that sounds mean but here are my reasons...

1. How are you going to raise the baby?
2. If you had the baby what about all the school you missed, good way to have money issues if you can't get a job.
3. Your 13, when your 20 the baby will be about 7 years old.
4. Your body is still growing, and you could end up really hurting your self
5. Who did you have the bay with? Not saying you won't but its most likely you don't want to be together for the rest of your life, so the baby could grow up with no dad or mum or have to grow up with spilt up parents.

Anyway your choice, Now you know better.
Does your mum and dad know?? does the boys mum and dad know? good luck explaining

:)



Tell your parents (theyre going to notice eventually, hoodies can only hide it for so long) tell that daddy to apply at mcdicks, and when you have that baby and your like 15-ish, ask your hubby to get you in mcdicks and enjoy your lives together

:D

common knowledge of what happens to teen parents (most)



Liar. Only a week ago you asked a question about your first kiss. And then three days ago you may have just started your first period. Within a week of your first kiss and three days of your first period you already know you're pregnant? You're so desperate that you need attention from strangers you'll never meet? You're pathetic.



people are not gonna like my answer but i don't care, first of all, learn to spell correctly, second, close your damn legs, third you are a child yourself, and fourth go and get it sorted and if you are to immature to understand what that means get a ******* abortion, you are selfish to keep this baby, silly silly little girl.



It's totally up to you. If your parents are fine with it. you could keep the baby. But your still in grade 7/8 ( nt sure about your birthday) and it will be extremely challenging. Or you could put your child up for adoption. I think it's really kind that you aren't getting an abortion. :)



13? well thats just great.... seriously, this is a dumb question. if ur not giving up your baby, fine whatever (you will probs regret it though). THAT is what your going to do. what do you mean "what am I going to do?!"

FAIL



get ready to be a mom... be strong a baby is a blessing.
even if your young you can be a good mom.
theres nothing else you can do but be strong



I just looked at your questions, and you were saying you were pregnant, then you said you wanted to be pregnant. Make up your mind!



Troll.

It's 'Pregnant.'

Kids who can't even spell shouldn't be allowed to procreate.



i just love the fact you can't spell pregnant, made my day.



keep the baby and great job on your spelling and choices.



bet your parents are proud.

sarcasm.



Woah. Just woah.



You got limited choices u either abort, adopt or keep the choice is yours but talk to your parents



talk to your parents and maybe think of adoption.



troll



Well, what else do you want to do? Have your baby!!!!



learn to keep ur leggs croset



I bet you made some man or boy happy

BTW YOU CANT FALL PREGNANT FROM KISSING




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