What is wrong with me. Please I'm so scared?!


Question: What is wrong with me. Please I'm so scared?
This may seem like such a stupid, dumb question. But Im worried. Please dont be cruel or mean.
I am 20 and for some reason my mind keeps thinking I am not a virgin, even though my ex boyfriend said I am as we never had sex. I even told my friends some of the things that me and my ex did and they said I am a virgin. My mind does this to me a lot of the times with other things as well ( I over analyze things sometimes). I keep thinking I might not be a virgin even though my ex said I am. He has no doubt about that as he is also a virgin as well and we never had sex. Please help me. I dont know what to do. I have no idea why I am thinking this way. A couple of days ago, I knew I was a virgin. So am I one? And would I have known if I had sex? Whats wrong with me? Its like I dont know what to believe :( What do I do?? Why do I all of a sudden believe I am not one? I mean I have evidence that states that I am a virgin. Like I said to my ex 2 months ago: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" We were on skype when I said this. I never saw him after this skype conservation. So why the hell am I all of a sudden thinking Im not a virgin???!!! Serious answers only please. The reason why it is a big deal to me is because I want to stay a virgin until I am married.
Please dont be rude.

Answers:

Very simple answer if you didn't have sex with anyone at anytime in your life then you are a virgin no matter what your mind tries to tell you.



Well, without knowing what went on between you and your ex, it sounds like you may have gone farther with him than you originally intended or were completely comfortable with, and that's why you are now anxious about it.



What are you hearing or seeing in your mind's eye that is telling you aren't a virgin? There is a simple exercise that can help, but it has to be done verbally. Not in writing. Check out telos center dot com if you are serious.



sorry but this confuses me slightly, if you know you haven't had sex how could you think you're not a virgin?
you may have been fondled and fingered, have had oral sex, been tied up and spanked, thought about sex, dreamed about sex, imagined having sex and wanted to have sex, but if your ex or anyone else's "erect male penis" didn't "enter your female vagina" then you haven't had sex, so no worries... you can still save yourself for marriage

person who is "sexually active"



You might have something in the back of your head that your not willing to admit, maybe your ex slipped you a ruffy, might be why he split out on you, maybe someone you thought was a friend slipped you one, maybe people are running their mouths about something they heard from someone that don't even know you, either way if you know in your heart you are a virgin, then you are. DO NOT let other people judge you, and DO NOT let them make you doubt. I hope you will be smarter on your next relationship




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