opinion based sex question...?!

Question: Opinion based sex question...?

Orgasms, are they a big deal? i vote no! our society has become so focused on the outcome goal, i.e. an orgasm, that women are feeling as though something is wrong with them and are not focusing on how GOOD something feels. pleasure vs outcome goal...i mean come ON women, sure an orgasm might be a great bonus but in the end if you are having a great time with someone you have a connection with, should it even matter? *we had a lecture discussion on this, found it super interesting!
opinions? comments...just something interesting to think about! :P

Answers:

Society such as movies, TV, the internet and so on has made a big deal over the orgasm thing. You can see on here little girls asking about how to have an orgasm. And I am like, what? I am not sure when I learned about them, but I am sure I was not 15 or less worrying about how I can have one.

And I think porn has a lot to do with it. Along with making women (and men I guess) feel that have to be perfect for someone to love an accept them it shows that if you are going to be a sexy lover you need to give and have lots of orgasm. Blah!

And I think sex is more of a wham bang thing now. What ever happened about finding someone you really care about or love to share sex with. You know when sex was called making love... It's not about a bunch of orgasms it's about the physical and mental connection between two people. I'm not saying never have a quicky, but I think sex has been cheapened with the idea of, 'Let's get naked and have an orgasm and go on with our lives.'

Personally sometimes I can be perfectly fulfilled without one. It's not something I am concentrating on during the whole thing. And I bet if some women on here that worry why they are not having them would stop worrying and just focus on the experience they would end up having more orgasms.

But this is all my opinion.

They may not mean much to yourself, I tend to agree, but to the other person it is important. I know my gf gets mad/sad if I don't do finish since she feels she didn't do a good enough job, and if I don't make her orgasm I feel the same so.

It's important, maybe more so for the other person =)

I agree they are nice but its more like eating a good meal too. Theres lots of things that are more important and also equally important. If you are just having sex to have an orgasm but if you have sex with a great person who gets you in all ways its way better.

Orgasms are great! But they aren't a necessity. I also think it's pretty stressful on a guy if he can't make you orgasm lol. I'm fine without one as long as it's with someone I really want to be with.

If a woman doesn't orgasm every time it will take years off her life...soooo kinda a stupid way to die a bit earlier lol

My sister and father are Doctors. (:

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