I feel like I am losing my mind help please?!


Question: I feel like I am losing my mind help please?
This may seem like such a stupid, dumb question. But Im worried. Please dont be cruel or mean.
I am 20 and for some reason my mind keeps thinking I am not a virgin, even though my ex boyfriend said I am as we never had sex. I even told my friends some of the things that me and my ex did and they said I am a virgin. My mind does this to me a lot of the times with other things as well ( I over analyze things sometimes). I keep thinking I might not be a virgin even though my ex said I am. He has no doubt about that as he is also a virgin as well and we never had sex. Please help me. I dont know what to do. I have no idea why I am thinking this way. A couple of days ago, I knew I was a virgin. I mean I have evidence that states that I am a virgin. Like I said to my ex 2 months ago: "Is it bad that I want to lose my virginity to you?" We were on skype when I said this. I never saw him after this skype conservation. So why the hell am I all of a sudden thinking Im not a virgin???!!! Serious answers only please. The reason why it is a big deal to me is because I want to stay a virgin until I am married. I want to know why all of a sudden I am thinking this.
Please dont be rude.

Answers:

Hmm..it sounds to me like this is so important to you that youre overreacting about it..some of us people can be our own worst enemy..try saying to yourself that youre very proud of urself and that youve kept your goal..also you might be feeling guilt about messing around with him, and I think thats what's makin you freak out



You might have a problem in your brain. Racing thoughts can be caused by a deficiency in a hormone in your brain. Go see a Psychiatrist. They will help you.
My best friend had a problem like this, they gave them Seroquel. And the problem went away.



maybe you should just go **** your boyfriend and stop worrying

youre missing out by holding onto that v card hon



You are technically a virgin unless you have had sex. Oral sex counts as losing your virginity by the way. However, from a religious standpoint there is kind of a gray area when it comes to virginity. Religion can be very idealistic, saying that you shouldn't even kiss a significant other unless you are married. However, as you know next to no one actually follows that. If you want to be able to say you're a virgin before you get married, just don't have sex and I think you can safely say that you are one. If you are doing this for religious reasons and it matters a lot to you to be "pure" before marriage, you could cut out the other stuff you're doing too then.



i think u can have some anxiety problems or stress ones..i used to b in the very same situation and i have never even had a bf so i guess it is due to stress or because u r so much worried that u need to b sure..u could go to a doctor and have a virginity check up..then u will totally be sure about it..or it could also b cause u have probably regreted making out etc with ur ex,so now it is worrying u..no worry hun,if u didn't have sex u r a virgin




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