I've got some questions?!


Question: I've got some questions?
this friday thers a party called sexy party and everyone says their going to loose their virginity. my boyfriend and I are going as a couple and we were wondering which is more enjoyable:
normal (only us two)
threesome (us 2 and an outcast looking for fun)
orgy (us two and a few other girls and a couple of boys)
Also, does it hurt for the first time?

Btw, no matter what I AM going to lose my virginity. Please no bulls*** answers saying not to do this.

Answers:

Hi Amanda,

I am not going to tell you to wait on loosing your virginity and I will strictly stick to your question. If this is your first time with sex then the group scene (orgy, threesome, foursome, etc) is not for you. This is because participating in the scene requires emotional maturity that is gain through having relationships and being able to differentiate sex from love. Without being able to make that differentiation the group scene can cause emotional havoc with your afterward.

In regards to pain the first time, it can hurt a bit. Best thing is for the two of you have a lot of foreplay before penetration, at least 20 minutes, and bring a water soluble lubricant, like KY Jelly, in case you do not get sufficiently wet. Reason why you want a water soluble lubricant is to prevent the condom from breaking down which could put you at a higher risk for pregnancy and STDs.

The advice I would give you would be do not participate in group sex, using a condom, use a water soluble lubricant, spend enough time with foreplay, and remember the golden rule, "no means no." Hopefully if you follow this very basic advice your first time will be enjoyable.



i think that since it's your first time, it would be more special if it was only you two.. and would you want your boyfriend having sex with someone other than you? and do you think your boyfriend would want anyone having sex with you, except him?



I would definitely just make it you & your boyfriend with nobody else. Since it's your first time you probably don't want to share it with anyone else except your boyfriend. It's more special that way. Be safe!



Seeing that you can't tell the difference between lose and loose, I'd say you are some fat teenager with no friends.



more than two is provocative. porn, and horny.



i would go with just u 2, cus its kinda GROSS any other way...




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