How and when do i tell my Future Boyfreind that i have breast implants ?!


Question: How and when do i tell my Future Boyfreind that i have breast implants ?
I am 31 years old. My last relationship lasted 9 years and my boyfreind knew about my surgery and was okay with it. Since we've left each other i've been feeling very self causcious about my body. But more precisely my breasts!!. I don't regret having the surgery. But no one prepares you or tells what comes after. How and when / at which point in the relationship do i tell someone that i am interested in that i have brests implants ? I have slept with him once since we've met but he didn't really get to notice if they were real or fake. I felt so uncomfortable while we we're making love. I'm sure he felt it too. I was shy, i wasn't laid back and free minded. I kept thinking the whole time Oh no What if he touches my breasts and notices. Should i tell him now ? Should i wait untill next time ? I'm all confused and very uneasy about this whole situation. I need help :) ......Valery C. thx.

Answers:

Thats a damn shame! You get the surgery to counteract the low self-esteem and now you have low self esteem because of the surgery? Accept yourself for who you are flaws and all,and don't make apologies for who you are or how you look.



By phrasing it in a way that turns what you perceive as a negative into a positive .
When you're doing a cowgirl with him and he is vulnerable and worshiping your boobs , look down at him and say "Hey big fella , Don't you think that my plastic surgeon did a great job when he put in these implants ? " and then put a nipple in his mouth.



Why worry? Just wait until he asks you. That's personal and if your relationship is not going to be serious, why bother? But if you want to tell him, just ask him if he likes your breasts and say they are fake. I'm sure he'll find out soon.




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