Help! i need to know if this is normal!?!
Question: Help! i need to know if this is normal!?
Answers:
It is quite common, especially for 1st timers... and yes, he most likely took care of whatever you had left of your hymen.
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It is a very tender and delicate area down there. A guy's finger is often semi-rough and often we don't trim our finger nails like we should. The skin inside you has blood vessels right at the surface and it takes very little to rub the inside skin and cause a lil bleeding. The tearing of the hymen will cause some blood too as well as some soreness.
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The burning is most likely from pee hitting some of this raw skin. Now, your pee hole is "right there" too and often the fingering can irritate the opening, causing IT to be a lil raw and sensitive. It's just how your girls are made..
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Trust me when I say your normal and all this is normal. As this happens more and in time, it will be something that can be extremely good feeling and "almost" better than real sex (nothing beats that tho if done right).
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Just make sure the guys hands are clean, no long nails and no gunk under them. Tell him to wash his hands and trim his nails if need be. After all, it's YOUR body.. YOU make the rules..!
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He probably broke your hymen. You should be okay.... Don't use irritating soaps or anything on the area. If it doesn't get better in a day or two, ask your mother or father to make you a doctor appointment. I would suggest you take an ibuprofen (advill) to reduce the inflammation/swelling.
Remember to always practice safe sex!
I hope you feel better!
When some women have sex for the first time there is blood then so maybe its the same thing, dnt ask me what happens cos i dnt no the detail but it's just something or other breaking and its completely normal and it's not abnormal for it to be painful
hope this helps
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