Why am I crying during sex? Whats going on?!
Question: Why am I crying during sex? Whats going on?
We had sex twice in a row where I haven't cried, but I haven't orgasmed during sex with him, I think it's because I'm worried about crying or it hurting.
It ALWAYS hurts at the beginning of sex for me, no matter how lubricated (natural or not) I am. But it doesn't last long, and I'm not sore the next day or anything. It sometimes hurts a little when he's all the way in, but not bad enough to cry. In fact it's more of an awareness than pain.
What can I do about the crying, and the pain type things?
He's being so sweet with me through this, and it's getting so frustrating because when I cry it worry's him and he stops.
Answers:
Get to the source of your crying..and your pain...
If you have not been physically or emotionally harmed in your past life...then there is no reason for you to be crying or in pain.
Btw...to orgasm...you don't need the penis all the way in. If he is hitting your cervix..then that is the wrong spot...the gspot is not all the way in ur canal huney!
Try gspot orgasms with a finger first..then gradually with the penis...
Also, are you prone to yeast infections? You may just have a sensitive vagina and need to be on probiotics and herbal supplements to keep the normal flora of your vagina safe.
But crying..I am unsure why you are doing that..and quite honestly am unsure why he is at the top of your vagina..that is THE WRONG WAY TO HAVE SEX..and if he is going that far..he could be giving you an infection...
Not to mention that if you are ALMOST ALWAYS near an orgasm but never really get there..then you are throwing your hormones out of whack..and it could be causing you to be extra sensitive...
Please educate yourself on your own vagina and it's potential for true orgasm..it seems that neither of you know how to release the female ejaculation..and when u do..I hope all your worries will dissipate!
See the article source below
http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_150/184_love_tip.html
I'm not too sure why you are crying, maybe its some sort of overwhelming sense of emotion. You should look it up online, see if others havethe same problem. I get the same pain at the beginning of sex, and I sometimes get a horrible sick feeling and I have to stop. Maybe try seeing the doctor for help?
Hope I helped ^.^
i've had this happen a couple of times. for me it was more of an emotional thing (then any pain). i was super stressed out and things were complicated with the person i was dating so it made it really difficult to have sex and would always be worrying about things.