Why save your self? ( ladies)?!
Question: Why save your self? ( ladies)?
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Some women believe in that! They believe that when you marry that you should be pure meaning you have not had sex! Did I no! I've been with my bf for almost 3 years n have a child with him but not married! He wasn't my first! I wish that I didn't have sex the first time when I did (I was 16) because now looking back on it I see that I wasn't ready and not mature enough! It all depends on their believes!
i think it comes down to morals. like mormons, i think, don't have sex before marriage because when they do have sex, they want it to be like a spiritual connection and they also want to be pure, i guess. it's debatable whether waiting until marriage to have sex is a good idea. as long as you're careful and you use protection, i think it's fine.
Because for us, sex usually isn't just a physical thing. It's emotional as well. We like to have a connection with the men we have sex with.
Also, considering us women are the ones who get pregnant, it's usually a good idea to wait until marriage for practical reasons.
Look, I'm not terribly religious, but when you have sex I think it should be a connection that is more that just physical. Girls believe in that more than guys, also.
It's a preference. Either way, I think you should respect a female's choice.
It is a personal decision that every woman makes, whether it be just for herself, religious reasons, anything. There is nothing wrong with it. And not every man has been with tons of women. Rare but true.
I don't think most women in America do. Most by the time they get married have had sex with multiple men.
In other countries like india, the women do it b/c otherwise they cant get married
i dont like feeling like a whore.
exactly. makes no sense to me.