Will having sex for the first time be enjoyable?!


Question: Will having sex for the first time be enjoyable?
Im a virgin and ive been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months and we are really close. Im 17 so ive waited till im old enough as my ex tried to get me to have sex but i wasnt ready so i dumped him. But now i feel like i am as i found the perfect guy , but i want it to be perfect and my bf has had sex before so im scared ill do something wrong or something. Ive already talked to him about it and hes really sweet and told me to wait but im done waiting i feel like nows the perfect time but what should i expect? will it hurt ? will i enjoy it? I need answers and ive asked my friends but they all say that its horrible the first time. Your commets will really help me thanks :) x

Answers:

Don't worry about not being good for your boyfriend. You've been together 7 months and you said he hasn't put any pressure on you to have sex. He sounds like a good guy. Knowing that, don't worry about being good. If you need to stop, tell him. If it hurts, tell him. He will understand. He'll also understand that it takes a couple of times before you get used to each other. My first time I had to stop because my girlfriend was hurting(also a virgin). About an hour later she wanted to try again and we finished. The first couple times she hurt a bit, after that she loved it. Also, keep in mind that your boyfriend is going to be nervous too. Even though he's not a virgin.



Will having sex for the first time be enjoyable? - Could go either way. Depends more on him than you. Chances are there will be some pain, and that it won't go perfectly... Usually some fumbling while you both "get used to" each other.

To make it "easier" for you, have him prepare you down there, and use k-y jelly or a similar lubricant to help make your first time less painful.



I am guessing it will not be wonderful the first time, but certainly not horrible. i think sex is a work in progress, but if you are with the right person, you will learn together, after all sex is not really about technique, but emotional connection.



Yes, the first time almost always hurts. I know you are seventeen, so this is probably really bad advice, but I would get a little drunk before you do it. I was drunk the first time I had sex and it really helped a lot with the pain.



Usually gets better and more enjoyable the 3rd time around.

Just make sure he gets you really wet and you play around with each other for a very long time - makes things a whole lot easier.



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The first time is never as we hope it will be but you are at an advantage...you have a great guy that you talk openly with..he knows that you are a virgin so when it comes time tell him to go slow. Don't rush into intercourse learn about each others bodies what you like and lots of foreplay be it hands, mouth whatever it is that you like and gets you very aroused. The more aroused that you are the better and when it does come time relax..relax..relax.. it will hurt at first but if you can just let him slowly enter you soon the pain subsides. It will take a few times before it feels really really good ..but it will soon feel good... and it sounds like he is a good guy, will go slow and take things to fast....don't have sex just to have sex..be sure that you are very turned on and really want to have sex otherwise it is not going to be a very good experience.




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