I luv a man twice my age?? Plz help!!!?!


Question: I luv a man twice my age?? Plz help!!!?
So I'm a swimmer and my coach is 32 years old I'm 13 and whenever I c him I feel happy and one time I quit swimming but I started again cause I missed him and felt empty not cing him all the time and when I'm sick or can't go to swimming for some reason I want to go just to c him and talk to him he has a gf and he almost never talks about her but when he does I feel sad and relly relly jelous (srry about spelling) and wish I was her or atleast older so I had a chance with him what r these feelings I need help and what should I do about it

Answers:

SweetIe, this is called a crush and it's normal. But this man is an adult and you are still a child, according to the law. He would go to jail if he did anything with you or to you. It is illegal.
I'm sure he would be very flattered to know you love him, but he knows that at 13, there can only be a coach and student thing.
Do your very best at training and make him proud. But if you want a boyfriend, wait a couple of years and even then it's best to have one maybe just 1 or 2 years older.
We you are in your 20's age difference matters less but as a young fledgling, you need to be with people closer to your age.
Sorry, but it will make you sad and cry a few tears but this is called growing up.



you should talk to your parents of someone you trust about this your so young and a relationship between a 32 year old man and a 13 year old girl cant be healthy take care of yourself ans make the right decision



U need to keep ur distance b4 ur lov for him becomes unhealthy it'll b hard but eventually ull b ablt to do it



Welcome to your first crush on an older guy it's your first but won't be your last. There is nothing you can or should try to do about it. He is an adult you are a child. That is major legal issues that could ruin his life if you attempted to go further, and mentioning it t him would make him uncomfortable and he would probably remove you rom the team for liability reasons. He doesn't talk about his girlfriend in front of you because that's not a bunch of children's business what goes on in an adult relationship. You'll get over it eventually. Focus on school (especially grammar and spelling) and maybe you'll meet someone your own age.




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