Oh dear. Hormones.............?!


Question: Oh dear. Hormones.............?
Okay. Here's my situation. I have a friend who has a brother. We'll call him Jack. And Jack is kinda not very cute, and he is an absolute JERK! But I am totally in love with him. Like I have sexual fantasies about him. :P

He hates me. (or at least that's what HE says ; )

I'm 12 and he is 12 as well. I do NOT want a boyfriend. That's just not appropriate at my age.

How do I get these thoughts out of my head???!!

Answers:

I know how much it sucks being a tween/teen and trust me, it'll take a LONG time to forget him and get over your feelinsg for him. I belive you when you say you don't want a guy and its understandable, but I'm sorry to say you won't be able to get these thought out of your head unless youre absolutely, completely, %100 positive you don't wanna like him. If so, then just keep telling yourself you don't like him because the only way to convince yourself of something is to keep saying it over and over again outloud. I know it sounds dumb, but eventually, it'll work. Hope I could help!

personal experience



No hun, you are not in love with him.
That's just called a crush.

If he's such a jerk and not cute, why would you like him?
Just find some flaws in him, to help you realize he's not the right guy for you.

Dont worry though.. since it's just a crush, it'll pass eventually, especially when you start eyeing other boys around your age.



Oh, the wonderful hormonal years. It's a CRUSH. You're probably attracted to his "bad boy" attitude. LOL. If you want the thoughts out of your head, occupy yourself with other activities. Oh and FYI, I date and I'm 14, but my 12 year old sister "dates". So that's the age. (:
Good luck <3



don't worry, at 12 you're supposed to have all sorts of thoughts. It's how people learn what they like about the opposite sex.

In time your mind will turn to OTHER guys on it's own. Don't worry, it's how all this works.

Hope this helps?



sexual fantasies at 12 yrs old? now thats messed up!




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