Why can't I have sex?!?!


Question: Why can't I have sex?!?
Im a virgin and me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time. Each time his penis went in a little further and further. He never fully went in because I was always in too much pain. One day he got the majority in. Neither of us got plesaure from it though because it wasn't in very long. (Brother came home.etc.) He came over a few days ago and we tried again. Still nothing. When he goes to fit the whole thing in it feels like hes...hitting somethiing inside me. And it's very painful. Why is that happening? It hurts so bad I always make him stop. Will I ever be able to have sex? Whats going on? Lol please help(:

Answers:

First I am assuming you are of mature age and are aware of the issues involved when having sex (i.e. std's and pregnancy). If you are not then I hope you speak to a trusted adult or family doctor.

Secondly, sex for the first time can be painful because the hymen is still intact. It is possible that there are other issues at hand, endometriosis can cause pain during sex. The pain is usually higher in the vaginal canal. However, if you are generally healthy and no medical issues are present (see a doctor to be sure), then the most likely culprit is your hymen. The hymen is a thin/thick (depending on your body) membrane covering the external opening of the vagina. It is sensitive to touch which is why sex can be so painful. Expect some bleeding to accompany your first time. To ease the pain and make the experience better be completely relaxed and fully aroused. It's possible taking a advil or motrin wouldn't hurt.

Hope that helps



well, when you are having sex you need to be very relaxed. if you are nervous or stressed you tend to clench your vagina...and it tightens the muscles within in. try relaxing a little bit beforehand. maybe try some foreplay with your guy...that will get you both sexually aroused and all for you to become lubricated down there. if that doesn't work then maybe you might want to visit your doctor cus she can give you some better tips. good luck :-)



You have to get fully aroused. Try kissing and stuff before jumping right into sex. And you'll get used to it, and it will start to feel good. I had the same question and found out on my own :) Good luck!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXDVhCt-Nho&feature=related

maybe u hav the same problem. idk. when i heard your scenario i though of this episode.
Hope i helped

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You are just really tight. and he may be really big. so takes time. you know ? to get used to it. or gynecologist.




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