Question:
What happens at my docters check up!? age 12 girls only! HELP?
I'm pretty sure I'm having my check-up soon. Just a random check-up. I've started my period just a month ago. what will they ask me? what will I have to do? also I just can not get a booster shot with a guy giving the shot. I was sexually abused as a child and i just can't I feel so uncomfortable and violated =/ I don't think theres any other girl docters though, when i was like 7 they held me down and he gave me the shot and my parents don't know i was sexually abused so what do i say i'm so scared. Please don't say to tell them because I'm planning on it. Also i CANNOT talk about my period with guys. I can't I will like cry and hide under a rock! theres no way i can feel okay with my sexual abusive past. I just can't what can I tell them? what will they do? also idk if i get a booster shot. they said you had to get them before middle school but instead we moved i went to a private school and never got it? what will they ask about my period? will they touch me cuz i will freak out! help!? im soo scared =( ! Thanks you so muchhh ! <3
Answers:
if it makes you uncomfortable ask for a lady doctor. im 12 too so i get what your saying. :) im sure theyll be happy to give you a doctor your comfortable with :)
oh poor kid,
dont worry........people who work in hospitals are very professional and compassionate. They know you are still a kid and with be very kind to you.
Try not to hide things from our parents. You must talk to your mom/parents for your own good.
Ask you mom to stay with you through your entire check up. Actually your mom will be with you in the consultation room.