Whats Wrong With Me???!


Question: Whats Wrong With Me???
well , im a 14 year old girl and for the past year I've been really down! i have overdosed on pills 3 or 4 times , my parents found out about one time, since then i haven't tried it again , because when my parents did find out they were extremely angry and shocked by me , i didn't want to hurt them anymore.
In 2009/10 i was a really happy girl , i had attention with boys , i had a BESTEST friend! , i went out all the time but it changed really quickly , i fell out with my best friend and my other friends just kind of started to not invite me anywhere, and boys didn't really pay any attention to me either, i started to stay in a lot more at the weekends and stuff & i still do . Noone ever askes me anywhere , and when i look in the mirror i feel so ugly!! the last few days ive been crying for no reason whatsoever and my throat beings to hurt to try and hold the tears back , i think i really need help but i do not know what to do!
please dont tell me to talk to my parents they tell me its hormones and stuff but its not, its like my whole world is coming down on me and i just cant take it.

Answers:

It sounds like the only thing that has changed is you. There is a saying, act the way you WANT to feel, and soon you will feel the way you act. Its really true. There is a connection with certain actions you take, like smiling, and the brain's response. If you act like you are happy, smiling and relaxing, then your brain will emit the chemicals that you would if you actually were happy and relaxed. That can be what changes your life for you.

From what you have typed, things started with the loss of your very best friend. i would say start there. Fix it, or get some closure and move on taking with you what you can learn from the experience. Joining a club or taking a class that interests you and finding out what you are good at will go a long way in helping you feel special and building your confidence in yourself.

You may have some form of depression, which the above recommendations, as well as lots of exercise and the opinion/prescription of an MD will help.

Hang in there kiddo, this part of life is so hard. Just try to learn what you can and keep focused on making yourself a better person and a more rounded individual. This really will help you through it. Lean on your family, they are there for you and love you very much.



your 14 iull learn soon that life is all about change but it dnt mean you cnt join a club if u keep busy u dnt feel down ive suffered with depression since i was 13 so if u wanna talk email me on hannah_luvs_luke@yahoo.co.uk ill email u bk as soon as i get on but hey ur mum is ur best friend if u cant talk to her ask school for a mentor it helped me so dnt worry to much an im here to talk wen ever ur dwn ok

experience



The entire reason this is happening,
is because you want the attention to be focused on you.
Lol, you WANT all the guys to look at you, you WANT to be invited everywhere, and now since that isn't happening anymore (So you think), you are getting sad and pissed off.
Lol.




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